CONFIDENCE & SELF CARRIAGE

There are two major aspects in people that gives them confidence and these two aspects are made up of various components.

There's the internal aspect and the external aspect.

The internal aspect comprises of

*Street/social intelligence 

*Book/academic intelligence

*Wisdom

The external aspect comprises of

*Wealth/status

*Appearance (dressing)

*Looks (physical attractiveness)

Street/social intelligence is the ability to understand and relate with others without any or much awkwardness.

Book/academic intelligence is the ability to excel academically.

Wisdom is the ability to easily comprehend life and it's situations as well as the right application of those knowledge gained.

Wealth/status...wealth in this context is not having any financial/material worries. While status is one's level of influence or popularity.

Appearance is one's overall dressing.

Looks is one's physical attractiveness. Both facial and bodily.

These internal and external aspects are the areas one draws his/her confidence from. A person might feel more confident due to their intelligence (whether social wise or academic wise), or due to their level of wisdom, or due to their financial standing or status, or draw confidence from their dressing or their physical looks.

Most people do not check all the boxes. They might be blessed in one aspect but not in others. Where a person draws their confidence from will determine their level of self carriage, for it's a person's confidence that determines how they carry themselves.