Love and Relationship

Love (the kind between a man and a woman) is the most sought after experience ever. Literally every human being (male and female alike) wants to (at some point at least) experience it. Many experience it once or twice; or even several times, and wish never to do so again. While some get addicted to the feeling and seem not to be able to do without it.

The good news about this love is that, it's open to everyone (except some certain persons who intentionally let go of such affection because of their spiritual understanding/religion). But even though love is available to all, not everyone will have a good experience. Many have been hurt, many are getting hurt and many more will get hurt in their pursuit of love. It was actually never meant to be so, but because of the variables in life which include: the wickedness of humans, selfishness, ignorance, stubbornness and so on, we see many getting hurt frequently.

Enjoying love is very intentional. Having a good and painless love relationship is also very intentional and possible. No one stumbles upon it, or comes upon it by chance. This means ignorance is not an excuse. If you want to be exempted from the mass of people who get hurt daily, then you have to intentionally work towards it. Don't follow what everyone is doing because many actually have no clue what they are doing. Everyone is just copying everyone. Dreams and wishes cannot give you a happy and satisfying love relationship.

Love relationship requires a lot to make it work; knowledge and commitment being the most important. So if you really want to have that relationship that's both enduring and enjoyable and rewarding, then be intentional about it.

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