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HOW MY CHILDREN DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE 😭😭😭😭 I am a medical doctor while my husband is a software developer. We both had good jobs until when the crises in NW and SW started and my husband lost his job and getting another well paid job became difficult, we both decided that I should travel to Canada for a job I got around that time and when I am stabilised, he would join me with the children. We are blessed with 2girls. We continued with our lives. December 2018, I decided to come to Cameroon for the festivities and to celebrate or 20th wedding anniversary. When I arrived, I noticed a tensed atmosphere between my daughters and their father. I thought it was the teenager – parent’s issue, so I ignored it. But when I noticed that my daughters would sometimes be rude to their father, I demanded to know what was going on. This became a matter of concern because, my daughters used to adore their father. I tried several times to get my daughters to speak with me but all they had to say was for me to talk to my husband. I had to ask my husband what was going on. He told me it was nothing he could not handle and that our daughters were keeping bad company in school and because of this, he decided to disallow them from going out and attending parties. He drops them in school and created time to pick them from school. I was happy as such strong hand is needed for teenage girls. I then ignored their attitude. Few days to when I was to travel back to Canada. I called my daughters to speak with them. After a long talk, they told me that daddy did not want them to go out because he was having sex with both of them. When my husband came back from the office, I confronted him and they repeated what they told me in his presence. My husband denied vehemently but the girls insisted that it was happening. I was confused and I sought the counsel of our pastor and his parents. They called our daughters and they said the same thing. I didn’t know who to believe. My husband kept begging me to believe him but I just was not ready to listen because I could not see reason why our children would lie about such. I made arrangement and took my children back to Canada with me despite the loans I had to take, for the extra costs. While I filed for divorce. I raised my children alone for about 3years. Then I heard the news that my now ex husband was getting married to someone else. I mentioned it to the girls and expressed how sad I was that a man that would do that to his daughters went scotfree because there is no evidence to push a case. I bursted out crying while apologizing to my girls about what he put them through. It was there that they confessed that their father did not touch them. That they lied because their father did not give them the freedom to do what they wanted and they wanted to leave Cameroon. My world shattered. where do I start from? How do I beg my husband? What do I say? Probably, I should have trusted my husband, but I was just trying to be a good mother. I lost a good man. How do I get him to forgive his children and I ? Can I still save my home ? Please help me. The children are so so Evil 😭 #Emacraft #Team 4

Your Life is Not Disposable Dear father, in the noble journey of sacrifice and responsibility, it’s easy to forget that you, too, deserve care. You wake up daily with the weight of provision, protection, and leadership on your shoulders—and many times, you carry it without complaint. But let this be a gentle reminder: your life is not just a tool for everyone else’s comfort. You are not a machine. You are a human being, deeply loved, needed, and worthy of rest, joy, and renewal. Taking care of yourself isn’t selfish—it’s wise. It’s what ensures you can continue to be strong for those who count on you. Your health matters. Your peace matters. And yes—you matter. Stay alive, stay well, and remember: your presence is a blessing that no one else can replace. Happy Father’s Day. #HAPPINESS #AWESOMEGOD

If it looks good but doesn’t work, it’s not good design. #aduloju70 #passion

If it looks good but doesn’t work, it’s not good design. #attendance #aduloju70 #passion

Once upon a fine girl Happy Sunday to all and sundry Today's lesson was "Esau sells his birthright". (The physical or the family right) If by any mistake we've sold out our spiritual birthright to the devil we can still reconcile with God. Say no to defeat, it's a normal thing to fall, but it's a sin not to rise up, take up d cross and keep moving. #SpreadTheLove. #Esther_Ekpenyong

Grace is earned by none, but favour is placed on the chosen. #Favour #Bisi28

Admittedly, life isn't meant to be easy, it's meant to be lived. Sometimes happy, other times rough, but with every up and down, you learn lessons that make you strong. Nobody can stop what God Almighty is about to do in your life. Stay positive even when it feels like everything is falling apart. Happy first Sunday #Nakupenda

Dream About Bathing, In the physical realm, the purpose of bathing is for personal hygiene. It is a means of achieving cleanliness by washing away dirt’s from the body. In the spirit realm, if you see yourself bathing, it symbolizes purification, cleansing and good health. For example, if a sick person is taking his or her bath in the dream, it shows the word of the Lord is about to bring healing and restoration unto his path. If you dream that a person is peeping at you during bath, it implies you are being watched by enemy. This is an indication that the wall of your protection is broken and this will give rise to the spirit of shame and disgrace. A bath in the dream is a symbol of a big transformation coming ahead. You must be prepared for this testimony. Making an effort to take a bath means that a person is inviting satanic embargo. If you are taking a hot bath in your dream, this means uncomfortably, and troubles, but also sickness, and loss of beauty are the uncommon signs. If you bath in a flowing river, you will have problems relating with marine and household witchcraft. If you are taking bath with a clean water, it indicates prosperity, long life, good health and progress. However, bathing in a dirty water in your dream is sign that your life is in a state of pollution. This show that you are experience a high level of sinful practice. Kindly use the blood of Jesus to purge out every sin in your life through daily confession. If you were bathing with someone in your dream, such dream might not be a good sign. It signify you are attached to a spirit who is bringing problems on your path. Embark on 3 days prayers and fasting with Psalm 107:20, Psalm 51, Psalm 102, Psalm 118.

Riddle time!!! Let's see who get the answer I don’t need a reboot, but I make everything run smoothly. I’m not an app, but I’m essential for connection. I’m felt, not seen, but without me, nothing truly works. What am I? Hint: Nakupenda runs on me! Type your answer in the comments section Answer: .......... #knowledge #nakupendariddle #gbemiking

👇 HUMAN "WEAPON OF MASS DESTRUCTION"👇😄😃🏃🏃🏃 **ANAMBRA COMMISSIONER SEEKS HELP TO MANAGE 18-YEAR-OLD APPRENTICE WHO IMPREGNATED 10 GIRLS INCLUDING MASTER'S DAUGHTER** May 7, 2025 The state’s Commissioner for Women and Social Welfare, Ify Obinabo, made the disclosure during a social media broadcast on Wednesday, expressing deep concern over what she described as an “overwhelming and disturbing case.” **An 18-year-old apprentice in Anambra State has reportedly impregnated at least 10 girls within a span of five months, including his master’s daughter and a salesgirl.** The state’s Commissioner for Women and Social Welfare, Ify Obinabo, made the disclosure during a social media broadcast on Wednesday, expressing deep concern over what she described as an “overwhelming and disturbing case.” The teenage boy, whose identity remains undisclosed, was sent to learn a trade under a master. However, within just three months, he allegedly got both his boss’s daughter and a salesgirl pregnant, leading to his immediate dismissal from the apprenticeship. “This boy was sent to learn a trade at the age of 18 and three months of apprenticeship, and he impregnated his master’s daughter and his salesgirl. He was sent packing,” Obinabo said. She further revealed that the situation deteriorated after the boy returned to his village, where he allegedly impregnated eight additional girls within two months. “I want advice from the public because this one is beyond my capacity,” Obinabo stated. “Two months after that, he impregnated eight other girls in the village.” The commissioner said the boy’s mother visited her office in desperation, seeking help as the situation had grown beyond the family's control. “Anytime I see a girl coming towards our house nowadays, my heart would jump, please, I need help,” the mother was quoted as saying. Obinabo, visibly disturbed by the unfolding drama, questioned whether the matter could have spiritual undertones. “This matter is beyond me, the reason I want the public to help me come up with a solution. Is it spiritual?” She recounted asking the boy how he managed to convince so many girls. “I asked the boy the magic he uses in luring the girls to bed, but he told me he always tells them that he loves them and would like to marry them any time he acquires wealth.” “This problem is beyond me because of the boy’s age and the number of pregnant girls involved; that’s why I need help to solve it,” Obinabo added. #Paddylay

Success is not for the lazy. If you want something great, you have to keep pushing. No matter what your dreams are, you will face challenges. But remember, every successful person you admire once struggled too. The difference is that they didn’t give up!l. What’s one goal you’ve been working on? Drop it in the comments! Let’s motivate each other.

The Character. The Habit. The You. At the end of the day, what really follows us isn’t just what we’ve said or achieved—it’s who we’ve become. The character we have lived. The habit we have formed. The you that played the role. Our character is the unseen voice that speaks for us even in our absence. It’s not built in the spotlight, it’s forged in the quiet, private choices we make when no one is watching us. Our habits? Well, as we know it is the small, repetitive steps that shape our direction. They either grow us or ground us. Build us or break us. We don’t rise to the level of our dreams by just dreaming—we fall to the level of our discipline. The rigorous process that forms that very habit. And then there’s you 🙃! The version of yourself you’re becoming daily. Not the curated one for others, but the raw, real one. The one who’s learning, failing, showing up, healing, becoming. So don’t just work on what you do; work on who you are. Because eventually, the life you live will reflect the character, the habit, and the you, that you’ve built over time. #GodsGeneration #spreadthelove #grateful #teamB #sarahdalandlady