• 𝗠𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗮 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝗳𝗲𝘄 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝘃𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗵𝗮𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲.

    Relationships don’t fail because love died. They fail because people got stuck in a stage and didn’t grow through it.

    Here’s a breakdown of the 𝟲 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽, and what each one demands from you:

    𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟭: 𝗜𝗡𝗙𝗔𝗧𝗨𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 (𝟬–𝟯 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀)
    When everything feels magical — but most of it is fantasy.
    • Intense attraction and excitement
    • Constant communication and longing
    • Idealization: seeing them as perfect
    • You’re falling fast — but not deep yet

    Enjoy the spark, but don’t mistake it for a foundation.

    𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟮: 𝗥𝗢𝗠𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘 (𝟯–𝟲 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀)
    The butterflies turn into bonding.
    • Emotional connection deepens
    • Affection and physical intimacy increase
    • Shared experiences grow
    • You feel “in love”

    Chemistry starts it, but connection sustains it.

    𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟯: 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗬 𝗖𝗛𝗘𝗖𝗞 (𝟲–𝟭𝟮 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀)
    Love now has a mirror — and it shows the truth.
    • Flaws, habits, and differences emerge
    • Disagreements surface
    • Your ability to communicate is tested
    • Love becomes a choice, not just a feeling

    This stage makes or breaks the relationship. Grow, or it cracks.

    𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟰: 𝗜𝗡𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗔𝗖𝗬 & 𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗦𝗧 (𝟭–𝟮 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀)
    You’re either building something solid — or drifting apart.
    • Emotional vulnerability increases
    • Deeper understanding and acceptance
    • Shared values and life goals become clear
    • Security and trust replace uncertainty

    Safety, not spark, builds intimacy.

    𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟱: 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗜𝗧𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 (𝟭–𝟱 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀)
    Now it’s about the life you’re building, not just the love you’re feeling.
    • Long-term decisions are made together
    • Responsibilities are shared
    • You face life’s seasons as a team
    • Love feels rooted

    Love is not something you feel every day, it’s something you choose every day.

    𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟲: 𝗚𝗥𝗢𝗪𝗧𝗛 & 𝗘𝗩𝗢𝗟𝗨𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 (𝟱+ 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀)

    It’s no longer just about staying together — it’s about growing together.
    • Personal and relational growth
    • Navigating change and life challenges
    • Deep companionship and peace
    • Reinventing love in each season

    Great relationships evolve, they don’t stay where they started.

    𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗹𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻
    You don’t need a 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽.
    You need two people 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲.

    Don’t quit at the hard parts. That’s where most love stories lose their plot.
    #olufaderomi
    #grace

    #RelationshipWisdom #LoveGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowTheStages
    #olufaderomi
    𝗠𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗽𝗲𝗼𝗽𝗹𝗲 𝘄𝗮𝗻𝘁 𝗮 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗹𝗼𝘃𝗲, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝗼𝗻𝗹𝘆 𝗮 𝗳𝗲𝘄 𝘀𝘂𝗿𝘃𝗶𝘃𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗵𝗮𝘀𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿𝗲. Relationships don’t fail because love died. They fail because people got stuck in a stage and didn’t grow through it. Here’s a breakdown of the 𝟲 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗮 𝗿𝗼𝗺𝗮𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽, and what each one demands from you: 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟭: 𝗜𝗡𝗙𝗔𝗧𝗨𝗔𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 (𝟬–𝟯 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀) When everything feels magical — but most of it is fantasy. • Intense attraction and excitement • Constant communication and longing • Idealization: seeing them as perfect • You’re falling fast — but not deep yet Enjoy the spark, but don’t mistake it for a foundation. 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟮: 𝗥𝗢𝗠𝗔𝗡𝗖𝗘 (𝟯–𝟲 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀) The butterflies turn into bonding. • Emotional connection deepens • Affection and physical intimacy increase • Shared experiences grow • You feel “in love” Chemistry starts it, but connection sustains it. 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟯: 𝗥𝗘𝗔𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗬 𝗖𝗛𝗘𝗖𝗞 (𝟲–𝟭𝟮 𝗺𝗼𝗻𝘁𝗵𝘀) Love now has a mirror — and it shows the truth. • Flaws, habits, and differences emerge • Disagreements surface • Your ability to communicate is tested • Love becomes a choice, not just a feeling This stage makes or breaks the relationship. Grow, or it cracks. 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟰: 𝗜𝗡𝗧𝗜𝗠𝗔𝗖𝗬 & 𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗦𝗧 (𝟭–𝟮 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀) You’re either building something solid — or drifting apart. • Emotional vulnerability increases • Deeper understanding and acceptance • Shared values and life goals become clear • Security and trust replace uncertainty Safety, not spark, builds intimacy. 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟱: 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗜𝗧𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 (𝟭–𝟱 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀) Now it’s about the life you’re building, not just the love you’re feeling. • Long-term decisions are made together • Responsibilities are shared • You face life’s seasons as a team • Love feels rooted Love is not something you feel every day, it’s something you choose every day. 𝗦𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲 𝟲: 𝗚𝗥𝗢𝗪𝗧𝗛 & 𝗘𝗩𝗢𝗟𝗨𝗧𝗜𝗢𝗡 (𝟱+ 𝘆𝗲𝗮𝗿𝘀) It’s no longer just about staying together — it’s about growing together. • Personal and relational growth • Navigating change and life challenges • Deep companionship and peace • Reinventing love in each season Great relationships evolve, they don’t stay where they started. 𝗖𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗹𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻 You don’t need a 𝗽𝗲𝗿𝗳𝗲𝗰𝘁 𝗿𝗲𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀𝗵𝗶𝗽. You need two people 𝘄𝗶𝗹𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗴𝗿𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗴𝗲. Don’t quit at the hard parts. That’s where most love stories lose their plot. #olufaderomi #grace #RelationshipWisdom #LoveGrowth #EmotionalIntelligence #KnowTheStages #olufaderomi
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  • We ain't doing that this year
    #Happiness
    #OnyeJay
    #TeamA
    We ain't doing that this year 😂😂 #Happiness #OnyeJay #TeamA
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  • #waskydone

    Don't wait for the perfect moment, take the moment and make it perfect.

    Exceptional morning everyone.
    #waskydone Don't wait for the perfect moment, take the moment and make it perfect. 🌟 Exceptional morning everyone. 💙🧡💚
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  • Believe in urself
    Ur voice should be louder than people's opinion in ur life.
    Faith it till u make it.
    #Grateful
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    Believe in urself Ur voice should be louder than people's opinion in ur life. Faith it till u make it. #Grateful Team B
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  • Over 2,200 years ago, a man measured the Earth… using shadows and a stick.

    In the 3rd century BCE, in the great Egyptian city of Alexandria, lived a man named Eratosthenes.
    Some mocked him by calling him Beta — the second letter of the Greek alphabet — implying he was second-best at everything. But in truth, he was an Alpha in knowledge.

    Astronomer, geographer, philosopher, poet, historian, mathematician, and director of the Great Library of Alexandria — he was a true Renaissance man… centuries before the Renaissance.

    One day, he read in a scroll that in the city of Syene (modern-day Aswan), on June 21st, the summer solstice, a vertical stick cast no shadow at noon. The sun stood directly overhead. But in Alexandria, on the same day and same hour, a stick did cast a shadow.

    Where most would overlook such a detail, Eratosthenes saw a cosmic clue.

    He reasoned:
    If the Earth were flat, the sun’s rays would hit both sticks equally — the shadows would match. But they didn’t.
    So, what could explain the difference?
    Only a curved Earth.

    He measured the angle of the shadow in Alexandria. It was about 7 degrees — roughly 1/50th of a full circle.
    He hired someone to measure the distance between Syene and Alexandria: about 800 kilometers.
    Then he did the math:
    800 km × 50 = 40,000 km — the circumference of the Earth.

    That’s astonishingly accurate.
    No satellites. No telescopes. No calculators.
    Just observation, curiosity, and a mind that dared to ask why.

    Eratosthenes became the first person to calculate the size of a planet — and he did it by watching how a stick cast its shadow.

    ~ Carl Sagan
    #astronomer
    #geographers
    Over 2,200 years ago, a man measured the Earth… using shadows and a stick. In the 3rd century BCE, in the great Egyptian city of Alexandria, lived a man named Eratosthenes. Some mocked him by calling him Beta — the second letter of the Greek alphabet — implying he was second-best at everything. But in truth, he was an Alpha in knowledge. Astronomer, geographer, philosopher, poet, historian, mathematician, and director of the Great Library of Alexandria — he was a true Renaissance man… centuries before the Renaissance. One day, he read in a scroll that in the city of Syene (modern-day Aswan), on June 21st, the summer solstice, a vertical stick cast no shadow at noon. The sun stood directly overhead. But in Alexandria, on the same day and same hour, a stick did cast a shadow. Where most would overlook such a detail, Eratosthenes saw a cosmic clue. He reasoned: If the Earth were flat, the sun’s rays would hit both sticks equally — the shadows would match. But they didn’t. So, what could explain the difference? Only a curved Earth. He measured the angle of the shadow in Alexandria. It was about 7 degrees — roughly 1/50th of a full circle. He hired someone to measure the distance between Syene and Alexandria: about 800 kilometers. Then he did the math: 800 km × 50 = 40,000 km — the circumference of the Earth. That’s astonishingly accurate. No satellites. No telescopes. No calculators. Just observation, curiosity, and a mind that dared to ask why. Eratosthenes became the first person to calculate the size of a planet — and he did it by watching how a stick cast its shadow. ~ Carl Sagan #astronomer #geographers
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  • Web Dev Tip:

    Always use semantic HTML tags like <header>, <main>, <article>, and <footer>. They improve accessibility, SEO, and make your code easier to read and maintain. Clean code = better websites!

    #knowledge
    #gbemiking
    Web Dev Tip: Always use semantic HTML tags like <header>, <main>, <article>, and <footer>. They improve accessibility, SEO, and make your code easier to read and maintain. Clean code = better websites! #knowledge #gbemiking
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  • No fewer than 6 people have lost their lives, while several others sustained various degrees of injuries in a fatal accident involving a 18-seater commercial bus along the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway on Saturday.

    The crash has caused a major gridlock, leaving commuters stranded for hours as emergency responders work to clear the wreckage and rescue victims.

    As of the time of filing this report, rescue operations are still ongoing, with emergency teams battling to save those trapped and manage the aftermath of the tragic incident.
    #lagosibadanexpressway #accident #Favour
    No fewer than 6 people have lost their lives, while several others sustained various degrees of injuries in a fatal accident involving a 18-seater commercial bus along the Lagos-Ibadan Expressway on Saturday. The crash has caused a major gridlock, leaving commuters stranded for hours as emergency responders work to clear the wreckage and rescue victims. As of the time of filing this report, rescue operations are still ongoing, with emergency teams battling to save those trapped and manage the aftermath of the tragic incident. #lagosibadanexpressway #accident #Favour
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  • WHEN YOU BECOME DISTRACTED AND LOSE FOCUS;

    • YOU LOSE CONFIDENCE — losing focus causes you to become unsure of yourself, your vision or your plan.

    • YOU LOSE CONSISTENCY — losing focus causes you to lose the time, energy and momentum necessary to fulfill your mission.

    • YOU LOSE CHANCES — losing focus causes you to miss out on opportunities for advancement and growth.

    • YOU LOSE CREDIBILITY — losing focus causes others to lose confidence in you, your abilities or your stability (resulting in an unwillingness to invest in your dream, vision or venture).

    • YOU LOSE CONNECTIONS — losing focus causes your relationships to gradually die from a lack of care, concern, consideration or concentration.

    • YOU LOSE CASH — losing focus can directly impact your finances by robbing you of a job, a career, a company or an important business deal.

    You cannot afford to lose focus in this season! Don’t wait for someone to “stir” you through inspiration or something to “provoke” you through obligation.

    Take an inventory of your life—who/what is necessary and who/what is not, who/what is draining you and who/what is sustaining you—then make the hard decisions necessary to recover your focus!

    Hope this made little sense?

    #chinosky
    #grace
    WHEN YOU BECOME DISTRACTED AND LOSE FOCUS; • YOU LOSE CONFIDENCE — losing focus causes you to become unsure of yourself, your vision or your plan. • YOU LOSE CONSISTENCY — losing focus causes you to lose the time, energy and momentum necessary to fulfill your mission. • YOU LOSE CHANCES — losing focus causes you to miss out on opportunities for advancement and growth. • YOU LOSE CREDIBILITY — losing focus causes others to lose confidence in you, your abilities or your stability (resulting in an unwillingness to invest in your dream, vision or venture). • YOU LOSE CONNECTIONS — losing focus causes your relationships to gradually die from a lack of care, concern, consideration or concentration. • YOU LOSE CASH — losing focus can directly impact your finances by robbing you of a job, a career, a company or an important business deal. You cannot afford to lose focus in this season! Don’t wait for someone to “stir” you through inspiration or something to “provoke” you through obligation. Take an inventory of your life—who/what is necessary and who/what is not, who/what is draining you and who/what is sustaining you—then make the hard decisions necessary to recover your focus! Hope this made little sense? #chinosky #grace
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  • In a world overwhelmed by instant reactions, impulsive replies, and emotionally charged exchanges, the true mark of strength and emotional intelligence is not in how quickly we speak—but in our ability to pause. That brief, intentional moment of silence between stimulus and response is not emptiness; it is power. It creates space for clarity, for calm, for wisdom to surface over impulse. Whether you’re navigating a tough conversation, leading a team, or simply dealing with personal conflict, the pause allows you to respond—not react—with intention and grace. It helps you listen beyond words, consider deeper perspectives, and communicate with empathy and strength. In that silence, you regain control, disarm tension, and turn potential conflict into meaningful connection. It’s not weakness—it’s mastery. The power is in the pause. Will you use it?
    #Happiness
    #AWESOMEGOD
    In a world overwhelmed by instant reactions, impulsive replies, and emotionally charged exchanges, the true mark of strength and emotional intelligence is not in how quickly we speak—but in our ability to pause. That brief, intentional moment of silence between stimulus and response is not emptiness; it is power. It creates space for clarity, for calm, for wisdom to surface over impulse. Whether you’re navigating a tough conversation, leading a team, or simply dealing with personal conflict, the pause allows you to respond—not react—with intention and grace. It helps you listen beyond words, consider deeper perspectives, and communicate with empathy and strength. In that silence, you regain control, disarm tension, and turn potential conflict into meaningful connection. It’s not weakness—it’s mastery. The power is in the pause. Will you use it? #Happiness #AWESOMEGOD
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  • One thing I like about tomorrow is,you will not know who will truly be relevant,available, alive,bigger and mostly needed.
    Let's all tread softly.
    One thing I like about tomorrow is,you will not know who will truly be relevant,available, alive,bigger and mostly needed. Let's all tread softly.
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  • Pratik Joshi had been living in London for six years. A software professional, he’d long dreamed of building a life abroad for his wife and three young children, who stayed back in India.

    After years of waiting for due clearances the dream was finally coming true. Just two days ago, his wife, Dr. Komi Vyas, a renowned doctor in Udaipur, resigned from her job. The bags were packed, goodbyes said, the future within reach.

    This morning, the family of five, filled with hope and excitement, boarded Air India flight 171 to London. They clicked a selfie. Sent it to relatives. A one-way journey to a new life. But they never made it. The plane crashed. No one survived.

    In a matter of moments, a lifetime of dreams turned to ash. A brutal reminder, life is terrifyingly fragile. Everything you build, everything you hope for, everything you love, it all hangs by a thread. So while you can, live, love, and don’t wait for happiness to start tomorrow.

    May they rest easy!!!
    #discipline
    Pratik Joshi had been living in London for six years. A software professional, he’d long dreamed of building a life abroad for his wife and three young children, who stayed back in India. After years of waiting for due clearances the dream was finally coming true. Just two days ago, his wife, Dr. Komi Vyas, a renowned doctor in Udaipur, resigned from her job. The bags were packed, goodbyes said, the future within reach. This morning, the family of five, filled with hope and excitement, boarded Air India flight 171 to London. They clicked a selfie. Sent it to relatives. A one-way journey to a new life. But they never made it. The plane crashed. No one survived. In a matter of moments, a lifetime of dreams turned to ash. A brutal reminder, life is terrifyingly fragile. Everything you build, everything you hope for, everything you love, it all hangs by a thread. So while you can, live, love, and don’t wait for happiness to start tomorrow. May they rest easy!!! #discipline
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  • The way Nigerians can turn ‘I’ll be there in 5 minutes’ into a whole episode of waiting. The clock is a myth #grace
    The way Nigerians can turn ‘I’ll be there in 5 minutes’ into a whole episode of waiting. The clock is a myth 😂 #grace
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