• I'm Back nakupenda

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    I'm Back nakupenda #knowledge #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou
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  • FIRST PHASE of the relationship is HOT SEASON.. season of I can't stay without you..I need to see you always ..

    The SECOND PHASE of the relationship is the TRIAL SEASON...life starts to
    test you both ..
    test your patience...
    test your character

    The THIRD PHASE of the relationship is the TIRED SEASON...
    you get tired to call...
    tired to visit...
    tired for intimacy...
    tired to see their face...
    tired to talk for long ..

    The FOURTH PHASE of the relationship is the LETS TRY AND MAKE IT WORK season.... This time around you intentionally fix a time for calls and checking up..not because you miss them but because it's a duty to do ...

    In marriage there is a time you won't have an urge for sex...but you will do it for duty sake.. this season you do your best to reignite the flame and the hotness AGAIN ...

    The FIFT SEASON is SEE FINISH TOGETHER... this phase is the season of WE KNOW IT ALL, AND NOTHING MOVES US AGAIN...
    his attitude doesn't trouble you again....
    her sharp mouth is normal to you ....
    You are used to their madness
    You have grown and evolved to handle your relationship....
    at this stage break up don tire Una ..so no break up...

    What level are you now ...?

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    👉 FIRST PHASE of the relationship is 👉 HOT SEASON.. season of I can't stay without you..I need to see you always .. 👉The SECOND PHASE of the relationship is the TRIAL SEASON...life starts to test you both .. test your patience... test your character 👉The THIRD PHASE of the relationship is the TIRED SEASON... you get tired to call... tired to visit... tired for intimacy... tired to see their face... tired to talk for long .. 👉The FOURTH PHASE of the relationship is the LETS TRY AND MAKE IT WORK season.... This time around you intentionally fix a time for calls and checking up..not because you miss them but because it's a duty to do ... In marriage there is a time you won't have an urge for sex...but you will do it for duty sake.. this season you do your best to reignite the flame and the hotness AGAIN ... 👉The FIFT SEASON is SEE FINISH TOGETHER... this phase is the season of WE KNOW IT ALL, AND NOTHING MOVES US AGAIN... his attitude doesn't trouble you again.... her sharp mouth is normal to you .... You are used to their madness You have grown and evolved to handle your relationship.... at this stage break up don tire Una ..so no break up... What level are you now ...? #knowledge #De_NextVerYou #Utom58
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  • I hope you know that 13 hours prayers is from 6pm in the evening to 7am the next morning..

    And someone does this every day just to make it in life..

    Listen prayer is powerful and anyone who doesn't have prayer as his lifestyle will vanish in relevance

    Unless you are a full time pastor you can do this hours of prayers

    But please let's not blackmail the body of Christ to this ..

    The man of God wasn't wrong ...

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    I hope you know that 13 hours prayers is from 6pm in the evening to 7am the next morning.. And someone does this every day just to make it in life.. Listen prayer is powerful and anyone who doesn't have prayer as his lifestyle will vanish in relevance Unless you are a full time pastor you can do this hours of prayers But please let's not blackmail the body of Christ to this .. The man of God wasn't wrong ... #knowledge #De_NextVerYou #Utom58
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  • #nakupenda
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    #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou
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  • GOD is the GREATEST
    No allow anybody lie for you
    #grace #utom58 #De_NextVerYou
    GOD is the GREATEST No allow anybody lie for you #grace #utom58 #De_NextVerYou
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  • Getting Money Is One Thing… But Knowing How to Manage It? That’s the Real Power.

    Getting Money is Easy… Keeping It? That’s Where the Game Is.

    You don’t need millions to grow wealthy — you need discipline, direction, and a plan.

    Here are 10 no-nonsense money management tips to help you stop going broke even when you're earning:

    ---

    1. Pay Yourself First
    Before you touch that paycheck, save at least 10%. Your future self will thank you.

    2. Track Every Shilling
    Know where your money is going. Budget apps or a simple notebook can expose your silent money leaks.

    3. Cut Emotional Spending
    Buying things just to “feel good” will leave your account feeling empty. Control the impulse.

    4. Live Below Your Means
    Just because you can afford it doesn’t mean you should. Peace of mind > flexing.

    5. Build an Emergency Fund
    Start with KSh 10,000. Life happens — don’t let one crisis wipe you out.

    6. Set Money Goals
    Saving for nothing leads to spending on everything. Save with purpose: land, car, business, etc.

    7. Invest Wisely
    Don’t let your money sleep in the bank forever. Learn to invest — even if it’s small. It grows.

    8. Avoid Bad Debt
    Borrowing for lifestyle, not investment, is a trap. Know the difference.

    9. Set Clear Financial Goals
    Saving without a goal is boring. Whether it’s a business, plot, or trip — give your money a mission.

    10. Learn About Money
    Read books, watch YouTube, follow finance creators. Money grows when knowledge does.

    11. Invest Consistently
    Don’t wait for millions. Start small — money working for you beats money just sitting.

    #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou #MONEY
    Getting Money Is One Thing… But Knowing How to Manage It? That’s the Real Power. Getting Money is Easy… Keeping It? That’s Where the Game Is. You don’t need millions to grow wealthy — you need discipline, direction, and a plan. Here are 10 no-nonsense money management tips to help you stop going broke even when you're earning: --- 1. Pay Yourself First Before you touch that paycheck, save at least 10%. Your future self will thank you. 2. Track Every Shilling Know where your money is going. Budget apps or a simple notebook can expose your silent money leaks. 3. Cut Emotional Spending Buying things just to “feel good” will leave your account feeling empty. Control the impulse. 4. Live Below Your Means Just because you can afford it doesn’t mean you should. Peace of mind > flexing. 5. Build an Emergency Fund Start with KSh 10,000. Life happens — don’t let one crisis wipe you out. 6. Set Money Goals Saving for nothing leads to spending on everything. Save with purpose: land, car, business, etc. 7. Invest Wisely Don’t let your money sleep in the bank forever. Learn to invest — even if it’s small. It grows. 8. Avoid Bad Debt Borrowing for lifestyle, not investment, is a trap. Know the difference. 9. Set Clear Financial Goals Saving without a goal is boring. Whether it’s a business, plot, or trip — give your money a mission. 10. Learn About Money Read books, watch YouTube, follow finance creators. Money grows when knowledge does. 11. Invest Consistently Don’t wait for millions. Start small — money working for you beats money just sitting. #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou #MONEY
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  • Life is better when nobody knows anything about you.

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    Life is better when nobody knows anything about you. #Knowledge #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou
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  • Goodmorning Nakupenda

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    Goodmorning Nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou #Knowledge #nakupenda
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  • Being alone really makes you realize all you got is yourself.

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    Being alone really makes you realize all you got is yourself. #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou
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  • 12_steps_to_self_care

    1. If it feels wrong, don't do it
    2. Say exactly what you mean
    3. Don't be a people pleaser
    4. Trust your instincts
    5. Never speak bad about yourself.
    6. Never give up on your dreams
    7. Don't be afraid to say no
    8. Don't be afraid to say yes
    9. Be kind to yourself.
    10. Let go of what you can't control
    11. Stay away from drama and negativity
    12. Love

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    12_steps_to_self_care 1. If it feels wrong, don't do it 2. Say exactly what you mean 3. Don't be a people pleaser 4. Trust your instincts 5. Never speak bad about yourself. 6. Never give up on your dreams 7. Don't be afraid to say no 8. Don't be afraid to say yes 9. Be kind to yourself. 10. Let go of what you can't control 11. Stay away from drama and negativity 12. Love #Knowledge #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou
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  • You can not force attention..

    Give yourself work to do instead of begging anyone for attention...

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    You can not force attention.. Give yourself work to do instead of begging anyone for attention... #Knowledge #De_NextVerYou #Utom58
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  • Who Truly Benefits from Sex? Man or Woman?

    The first thought that likely came to your mind was—man. Right? Most people instinctively assume that men derive more pleasure from sex, while women merely endure it. But you might be surprised to learn that reality is quite the opposite.

    Whether the act lasts five minutes or fifty, a man’s pleasure is condensed into the final five to ten seconds. In contrast, a woman can experience ****** up to ten times in a single sexual encounter. That means a woman has the potential to enjoy ten times more pleasure than a man. Moreover, the duration of a woman's ****** is typically twice or even three times longer than that of a man.

    Of course, not every woman reaches this peak every time. Some may rarely experience it, while others, on average, enjoy it three times per encounter—which is still significantly more than men. Less effort, more reward. This is an undeniable fact.

    But There’s More to the Story…

    ****** is simply the peak. The journey leading up to it is filled with pleasurable moments, intimate sensations, and deep emotional connections that keep both partners engaged. Both men and women derive enjoyment throughout the experience, but the ultimate climax marks the grand finale.

    Wise lovers understand that sex is not just about reaching the peak—it’s about savoring every moment of the journey.

    But If Women Benefit More, Why Are Men Always the Ones Pursuing It?

    The answer is simple: instinct.

    God designed sex as a reward system to encourage reproduction. Since women bear the greater burden of pregnancy—carrying a child for nine months—they were naturally endowed with a greater pleasure incentive to ensure they willingly partake in the process. Smart women embrace this natural gift, while the unaware may deprive themselves of it.

    Let’s be honest—if childbirth pain was the only reward, no woman would ever want to go through it again. But two things keep her coming back:

    The innate maternal instinct God has placed within her.

    The unparalleled pleasure and emotional fulfillment that comes with sex.

    Funny But True…

    It’s often said that during labor, women curse their husbands, blaming them for the unbearable pain they are experiencing.

    But can you deny the reality that the same woman, after delivering her child, willingly prepares for another pregnancy within a year?

    No man forces her into it. There’s no gunpoint coercion.

    It’s instinct.
    It’s pleasure.
    It’s God’s divine system at work.

    But Then, Why Do Men Chase Women If They Get Less Pleasure?

    Again, instinct and dominance.

    God has naturally instilled in men a desire to dominate and lead. A man's greatest pleasure in sex is not just physical—it’s the satisfaction of knowing that he has "conquered" his woman, pleased her, and fulfilled his natural role.

    Men don’t chase sex just for a few seconds of pleasure. They do it because it reaffirms their strength, their power, their ability to satisfy their woman, and ultimately, their role as a protector and provider.

    This dominance-driven pleasure fuels their willingness to bear responsibilities, raise children, and provide for their families.

    If Sex Is About Reproduction, Why Do Humans Continue Even When Pregnancy Isn’t the Goal?

    Good question. Other creatures mate solely for reproduction. But humans are the only species that enjoy this pleasure beyond just procreation.

    Why? Because God designed sex not just for reproduction, but also for bonding, stress relief, and maintaining emotional harmony between partners.

    This is why, even when pregnancy is not the goal, a couple continues to engage in intimacy regularly.

    Without this constant cycle of pleasure, emotional connection, and intimacy, relationships would suffer. A woman, after experiencing the pain of childbirth, might never want to go through it again. A man, burdened with responsibilities, might lose his motivation to work and provide.

    But sex keeps the system running.

    The Divine Balance

    God, in His wisdom, has allowed couples the freedom to experience intimacy whenever they desire, with no legal or religious restrictions, as long as it happens within marriage.

    Both man and woman receive their fair share of pleasure:

    The man experiences intense gratification, emotional release, and dominance satisfaction.

    The woman enjoys profound, long-lasting pleasure—up to ten times more than the man.

    Less effort, greater reward.

    Sex is not just a biological act. It is a divine gift, a system of balance, and an eternal bond between two souls.

    #nakupenda
    #Utom58
    #De_NextVerYou
    #Relationship/Sex
    Who Truly Benefits from Sex? Man or Woman? The first thought that likely came to your mind was—man. Right? Most people instinctively assume that men derive more pleasure from sex, while women merely endure it. But you might be surprised to learn that reality is quite the opposite. Whether the act lasts five minutes or fifty, a man’s pleasure is condensed into the final five to ten seconds. In contrast, a woman can experience orgasm up to ten times in a single sexual encounter. That means a woman has the potential to enjoy ten times more pleasure than a man. Moreover, the duration of a woman's orgasm is typically twice or even three times longer than that of a man. Of course, not every woman reaches this peak every time. Some may rarely experience it, while others, on average, enjoy it three times per encounter—which is still significantly more than men. Less effort, more reward. This is an undeniable fact. But There’s More to the Story… Orgasm is simply the peak. The journey leading up to it is filled with pleasurable moments, intimate sensations, and deep emotional connections that keep both partners engaged. Both men and women derive enjoyment throughout the experience, but the ultimate climax marks the grand finale. Wise lovers understand that sex is not just about reaching the peak—it’s about savoring every moment of the journey. But If Women Benefit More, Why Are Men Always the Ones Pursuing It? The answer is simple: instinct. God designed sex as a reward system to encourage reproduction. Since women bear the greater burden of pregnancy—carrying a child for nine months—they were naturally endowed with a greater pleasure incentive to ensure they willingly partake in the process. Smart women embrace this natural gift, while the unaware may deprive themselves of it. Let’s be honest—if childbirth pain was the only reward, no woman would ever want to go through it again. But two things keep her coming back: The innate maternal instinct God has placed within her. The unparalleled pleasure and emotional fulfillment that comes with sex. Funny But True… It’s often said that during labor, women curse their husbands, blaming them for the unbearable pain they are experiencing. But can you deny the reality that the same woman, after delivering her child, willingly prepares for another pregnancy within a year? No man forces her into it. There’s no gunpoint coercion. It’s instinct. It’s pleasure. It’s God’s divine system at work. But Then, Why Do Men Chase Women If They Get Less Pleasure? Again, instinct and dominance. God has naturally instilled in men a desire to dominate and lead. A man's greatest pleasure in sex is not just physical—it’s the satisfaction of knowing that he has "conquered" his woman, pleased her, and fulfilled his natural role. Men don’t chase sex just for a few seconds of pleasure. They do it because it reaffirms their strength, their power, their ability to satisfy their woman, and ultimately, their role as a protector and provider. This dominance-driven pleasure fuels their willingness to bear responsibilities, raise children, and provide for their families. If Sex Is About Reproduction, Why Do Humans Continue Even When Pregnancy Isn’t the Goal? Good question. Other creatures mate solely for reproduction. But humans are the only species that enjoy this pleasure beyond just procreation. Why? Because God designed sex not just for reproduction, but also for bonding, stress relief, and maintaining emotional harmony between partners. This is why, even when pregnancy is not the goal, a couple continues to engage in intimacy regularly. Without this constant cycle of pleasure, emotional connection, and intimacy, relationships would suffer. A woman, after experiencing the pain of childbirth, might never want to go through it again. A man, burdened with responsibilities, might lose his motivation to work and provide. But sex keeps the system running. The Divine Balance God, in His wisdom, has allowed couples the freedom to experience intimacy whenever they desire, with no legal or religious restrictions, as long as it happens within marriage. Both man and woman receive their fair share of pleasure: The man experiences intense gratification, emotional release, and dominance satisfaction. The woman enjoys profound, long-lasting pleasure—up to ten times more than the man. Less effort, greater reward. Sex is not just a biological act. It is a divine gift, a system of balance, and an eternal bond between two souls. #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou #Relationship/Sex
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