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Please how am I supposed to know if I’m in the right relationship? #Grateful #PeaceOfMind

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Na why i no gree enter relationship be this

Hello guys hope you're all doing great. So that was how this guy met me o and was confessing his feelings towards me. I told him I'm not ready for anything serious with him I just want us to be friends. He Then admitted that he dosnt have a problem with friendship. Every now and then he gets me expensive gifts, hmmm, I asked him "are you sure about this"? , my stance concerning this matter is solid o. I'm not in for a relationship with you, he said he understands and he just loves to help people and he does it to every other hardworking friend. So I decided to relax myself and enjoy the favour God is showing me in the sight of this my new friend and colleague. Some days ago I didnt know what happened all of a sudden he asked me to marry him and i said no please, I cant I've told you this before . He got angry and asked me to refund everything. Mind you the everything cost 500k. What do I do please. Mind you, i help him do some tasks and he rewards me with the gifts o . Not like i was collecting it like awoof. #Nakupenda [Agwammy] [iamdajek]

CONFESSION FOR THE NEW WEEK!!! O God My Father, as I step into this new week, I place my trust in You. I acknowledge that You are the Creator of all things, and You have perfect plans for my life. I release any fear or anxiety that may have been holding me back, knowing that You are my protector and my provider. I declare that this week will be filled with Your wisdom, peace, and favour. Every challenge I face will be an opportunity for growth, and I will overcome all obstacles with Your strength. I will be patient, kind, and loving to those around me, reflecting Your goodness in my words and actions. I declare that my mind is focused on Your truth, and my heart is open to hear Your voice. I will seek Your guidance in every decision I make, trusting that You will lead me along the right path. I speak blessings over my work, my relationships, and every area of my life, knowing that Your grace is sufficient for me. This week, I will be filled with joy and hope, for I know that You are with me every step of the way. I will not be discouraged, for You are my strength, and You hold my future in Your hands. I surrender my plans and desires to You, trusting that You will align them with Your will. I thank You for the strength to persevere and the courage to pursue my goals with faith. This week, I will walk in the fullness of Your peace, knowing that You are in control of all things. I commit this week to You, Lord, and I trust that You will work all things together for my good and Your glory." In Jesus mighty name. A sevenfold Amen "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths." — Proverbs 3:5-6

RELATIONSHIPS Why Friendship is more important than you think "In the sweetness of friendship let there be laughter, and sharing of pleasures. For in the dew of little things the heart finds its morning and is refreshed." – Khalil Gibran We often prioritize and seek romantic relationships first and foremost. We also value our family bonds and tend to favor these connections. However, this can mean that we leave friendships by the wayside. And yet friendships can be very important for a good, satisfying, and meaningful life. Friendships are special because they are usually far more about positive emotions and fun than other relationships. That is not to say that friends won’t be there during the hard times, but that we tend to hang out with them when we want to. With a relative or a partner, there are usually more obligations. This means that friends can become those positive relationships that bring us joy and happiness, even when things are tough elsewhere. Secondly, friends are chosen, and as we maintain a friendship, we keep making the choice to stick with that person. It empowers us to build long and satisfying connections but let go of those that are less significant. #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou #Relationships

Them don use "I'm going through a lot" leave you for relationship before?💔😂 #PeaceOfMind

Signs That You Have a Spiritual Husband If you’ve ever wondered how to deal with a spiritual husband, it’s essential to first recognize the signs of this spiritual affliction. A spiritual husband is a demonic entity that attaches itself to an individual, often causing disturbances in dreams, emotional instability, and hindrances in relationships. Understanding these signs is the first step toward deliverance and restoration. 1. Recurring Se*xual Dreams Experiencing frequent dreams of being se*xually intimate with an unseen partner is a common sign of a spiritual husband. These dreams often leave you feeling drained and unsettled upon waking. 2. Emotional Instability Sudden mood swings, unexplained sadness, or feelings of loneliness can be manifestations of a spiritual husband influencing your emotions. Learn more about what God can do exceedingly abundantly here. 3. Unexplained Fatigue Consistently feeling tired or lacking energy, even after adequate rest, may indicate a spiritual husband draining your vitality. 4. Hindrances in Relationships Struggling to maintain healthy relationships or experiencing repeated breakups can result from a spiritual husband interfering with your connections. Learn more about how to reverse a curse back to the sender here. 5. Sleep Disturbances Frequent nightmares, sleep paralysis, or waking up feeling unrested can be signs of spiritual oppression during sleep. 6. Unexplained Financial Loss Experiencing sudden financial difficulties or loss without clear reasons may be linked to spiritual hindrances caused by a spiritual husband. Learn more about why marriage is important to God here. 7. Inability to Maintain Purity Struggling with maintaining sexual purity or being drawn into illicit relationships can be a tactic of a spiritual husband to defile and distract. 8. Sudden Illnesses Experiencing unexplained illnesses or chronic health issues without a medical explanat

Who Truly Benefits from Sex? Man or Woman? The first thought that likely came to your mind was—man. Right? Most people instinctively assume that men derive more pleasure from sex, while women merely endure it. But you might be surprised to learn that reality is quite the opposite. Whether the act lasts five minutes or fifty, a man’s pleasure is condensed into the final five to ten seconds. In contrast, a woman can experience orgasm up to ten times in a single sexual encounter. That means a woman has the potential to enjoy ten times more pleasure than a man. Moreover, the duration of a woman's orgasm is typically twice or even three times longer than that of a man. Of course, not every woman reaches this peak every time. Some may rarely experience it, while others, on average, enjoy it three times per encounter—which is still significantly more than men. Less effort, more reward. This is an undeniable fact. But There’s More to the Story… Orgasm is simply the peak. The journey leading up to it is filled with pleasurable moments, intimate sensations, and deep emotional connections that keep both partners engaged. Both men and women derive enjoyment throughout the experience, but the ultimate climax marks the grand finale. Wise lovers understand that sex is not just about reaching the peak—it’s about savoring every moment of the journey. But If Women Benefit More, Why Are Men Always the Ones Pursuing It? The answer is simple: instinct. God designed sex as a reward system to encourage reproduction. Since women bear the greater burden of pregnancy—carrying a child for nine months—they were naturally endowed with a greater pleasure incentive to ensure they willingly partake in the process. Smart women embrace this natural gift, while the unaware may deprive themselves of it. Let’s be honest—if childbirth pain was the only reward, no woman would ever want to go through it again. But two things keep her coming back: The innate maternal instinct God has placed within her. The unparalleled pleasure and emotional fulfillment that comes with sex. Funny But True… It’s often said that during labor, women curse their husbands, blaming them for the unbearable pain they are experiencing. But can you deny the reality that the same woman, after delivering her child, willingly prepares for another pregnancy within a year? No man forces her into it. There’s no gunpoint coercion. It’s instinct. It’s pleasure. It’s God’s divine system at work. But Then, Why Do Men Chase Women If They Get Less Pleasure? Again, instinct and dominance. God has naturally instilled in men a desire to dominate and lead. A man's greatest pleasure in sex is not just physical—it’s the satisfaction of knowing that he has "conquered" his woman, pleased her, and fulfilled his natural role. Men don’t chase sex just for a few seconds of pleasure. They do it because it reaffirms their strength, their power, their ability to satisfy their woman, and ultimately, their role as a protector and provider. This dominance-driven pleasure fuels their willingness to bear responsibilities, raise children, and provide for their families. If Sex Is About Reproduction, Why Do Humans Continue Even When Pregnancy Isn’t the Goal? Good question. Other creatures mate solely for reproduction. But humans are the only species that enjoy this pleasure beyond just procreation. Why? Because God designed sex not just for reproduction, but also for bonding, stress relief, and maintaining emotional harmony between partners. This is why, even when pregnancy is not the goal, a couple continues to engage in intimacy regularly. Without this constant cycle of pleasure, emotional connection, and intimacy, relationships would suffer. A woman, after experiencing the pain of childbirth, might never want to go through it again. A man, burdened with responsibilities, might lose his motivation to work and provide. But sex keeps the system running. The Divine Balance God, in His wisdom, has allowed couples the freedom to experience intimacy whenever they desire, with no legal or religious restrictions, as long as it happens within marriage. Both man and woman receive their fair share of pleasure: The man experiences intense gratification, emotional release, and dominance satisfaction. The woman enjoys profound, long-lasting pleasure—up to ten times more than the man. Less effort, greater reward. Sex is not just a biological act. It is a divine gift, a system of balance, and an eternal bond between two souls. #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou #Relationship/Sex

#DREAMANDINTERPRETATION CARRYING BABIES IN THE DREAM To change a dirty baby (diaper) means that you need to take good care of your children. Are you feeling that you are child or baby is dirty? To see a baby in the hospital suggests that you may become pregnant in the future. To dream of giving birth to a baby that is not human means you are likely to give birth to a baby you don’t like. If you dream of neglecting your baby then this dream means a sense of severe marital troubels. If you are married with children, congratulations. But if you are not married with children, it a sign of childlessness. On the other hand, this dream can also signify that you recently abort one or two babies. To hold a baby in your arms which is dead signifies a hand that is dead to good things. Pray any of these prayers when you notice any of the following Spiritual mariage (ring/gown) Sexual relationships in dreams. Soul tie with your ex and planning to him. Different men asking for your hands in marriage.

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WHEN YOU BECOME DISTRACTED AND LOSE FOCUS; • YOU LOSE CONFIDENCE — losing focus causes you to become unsure of yourself, your vision or your plan. • YOU LOSE CONSISTENCY — losing focus causes you to lose the time, energy and momentum necessary to fulfill your mission. • YOU LOSE CHANCES — losing focus causes you to miss out on opportunities for advancement and growth. • YOU LOSE CREDIBILITY — losing focus causes others to lose confidence in you, your abilities or your stability (resulting in an unwillingness to invest in your dream, vision or venture). • YOU LOSE CONNECTIONS — losing focus causes your relationships to gradually die from a lack of care, concern, consideration or concentration. • YOU LOSE CASH — losing focus can directly impact your finances by robbing you of a job, a career, a company or an important business deal. You cannot afford to lose focus in this season! Don’t wait for someone to “stir” you through inspiration or something to “provoke” you through obligation. Take an inventory of your life—who/what is necessary and who/what is not, who/what is draining you and who/what is sustaining you—then make the hard decisions necessary to recover your focus! Hope this made little sense? #chinosky #grace