• Who Truly Benefits from Sex? Man or Woman?

    The first thought that likely came to your mind was—man. Right? Most people instinctively assume that men derive more pleasure from sex, while women merely endure it. But you might be surprised to learn that reality is quite the opposite.

    Whether the act lasts five minutes or fifty, a man’s pleasure is condensed into the final five to ten seconds. In contrast, a woman can experience ****** up to ten times in a single sexual encounter. That means a woman has the potential to enjoy ten times more pleasure than a man. Moreover, the duration of a woman's ****** is typically twice or even three times longer than that of a man.

    Of course, not every woman reaches this peak every time. Some may rarely experience it, while others, on average, enjoy it three times per encounter—which is still significantly more than men. Less effort, more reward. This is an undeniable fact.

    But There’s More to the Story…

    ****** is simply the peak. The journey leading up to it is filled with pleasurable moments, intimate sensations, and deep emotional connections that keep both partners engaged. Both men and women derive enjoyment throughout the experience, but the ultimate climax marks the grand finale.

    Wise lovers understand that sex is not just about reaching the peak—it’s about savoring every moment of the journey.

    But If Women Benefit More, Why Are Men Always the Ones Pursuing It?

    The answer is simple: instinct.

    God designed sex as a reward system to encourage reproduction. Since women bear the greater burden of pregnancy—carrying a child for nine months—they were naturally endowed with a greater pleasure incentive to ensure they willingly partake in the process. Smart women embrace this natural gift, while the unaware may deprive themselves of it.

    Let’s be honest—if childbirth pain was the only reward, no woman would ever want to go through it again. But two things keep her coming back:

    The innate maternal instinct God has placed within her.

    The unparalleled pleasure and emotional fulfillment that comes with sex.

    Funny But True…

    It’s often said that during labor, women curse their husbands, blaming them for the unbearable pain they are experiencing.

    But can you deny the reality that the same woman, after delivering her child, willingly prepares for another pregnancy within a year?

    No man forces her into it. There’s no gunpoint coercion.

    It’s instinct.
    It’s pleasure.
    It’s God’s divine system at work.

    But Then, Why Do Men Chase Women If They Get Less Pleasure?

    Again, instinct and dominance.

    God has naturally instilled in men a desire to dominate and lead. A man's greatest pleasure in sex is not just physical—it’s the satisfaction of knowing that he has "conquered" his woman, pleased her, and fulfilled his natural role.

    Men don’t chase sex just for a few seconds of pleasure. They do it because it reaffirms their strength, their power, their ability to satisfy their woman, and ultimately, their role as a protector and provider.

    This dominance-driven pleasure fuels their willingness to bear responsibilities, raise children, and provide for their families.

    If Sex Is About Reproduction, Why Do Humans Continue Even When Pregnancy Isn’t the Goal?

    Good question. Other creatures mate solely for reproduction. But humans are the only species that enjoy this pleasure beyond just procreation.

    Why? Because God designed sex not just for reproduction, but also for bonding, stress relief, and maintaining emotional harmony between partners.

    This is why, even when pregnancy is not the goal, a couple continues to engage in intimacy regularly.

    Without this constant cycle of pleasure, emotional connection, and intimacy, relationships would suffer. A woman, after experiencing the pain of childbirth, might never want to go through it again. A man, burdened with responsibilities, might lose his motivation to work and provide.

    But sex keeps the system running.

    The Divine Balance

    God, in His wisdom, has allowed couples the freedom to experience intimacy whenever they desire, with no legal or religious restrictions, as long as it happens within marriage.

    Both man and woman receive their fair share of pleasure:

    The man experiences intense gratification, emotional release, and dominance satisfaction.

    The woman enjoys profound, long-lasting pleasure—up to ten times more than the man.

    Less effort, greater reward.

    Sex is not just a biological act. It is a divine gift, a system of balance, and an eternal bond between two souls.

    #nakupenda
    #Utom58
    #De_NextVerYou
    #Relationship/Sex
    Who Truly Benefits from Sex? Man or Woman? The first thought that likely came to your mind was—man. Right? Most people instinctively assume that men derive more pleasure from sex, while women merely endure it. But you might be surprised to learn that reality is quite the opposite. Whether the act lasts five minutes or fifty, a man’s pleasure is condensed into the final five to ten seconds. In contrast, a woman can experience orgasm up to ten times in a single sexual encounter. That means a woman has the potential to enjoy ten times more pleasure than a man. Moreover, the duration of a woman's orgasm is typically twice or even three times longer than that of a man. Of course, not every woman reaches this peak every time. Some may rarely experience it, while others, on average, enjoy it three times per encounter—which is still significantly more than men. Less effort, more reward. This is an undeniable fact. But There’s More to the Story… Orgasm is simply the peak. The journey leading up to it is filled with pleasurable moments, intimate sensations, and deep emotional connections that keep both partners engaged. Both men and women derive enjoyment throughout the experience, but the ultimate climax marks the grand finale. Wise lovers understand that sex is not just about reaching the peak—it’s about savoring every moment of the journey. But If Women Benefit More, Why Are Men Always the Ones Pursuing It? The answer is simple: instinct. God designed sex as a reward system to encourage reproduction. Since women bear the greater burden of pregnancy—carrying a child for nine months—they were naturally endowed with a greater pleasure incentive to ensure they willingly partake in the process. Smart women embrace this natural gift, while the unaware may deprive themselves of it. Let’s be honest—if childbirth pain was the only reward, no woman would ever want to go through it again. But two things keep her coming back: The innate maternal instinct God has placed within her. The unparalleled pleasure and emotional fulfillment that comes with sex. Funny But True… It’s often said that during labor, women curse their husbands, blaming them for the unbearable pain they are experiencing. But can you deny the reality that the same woman, after delivering her child, willingly prepares for another pregnancy within a year? No man forces her into it. There’s no gunpoint coercion. It’s instinct. It’s pleasure. It’s God’s divine system at work. But Then, Why Do Men Chase Women If They Get Less Pleasure? Again, instinct and dominance. God has naturally instilled in men a desire to dominate and lead. A man's greatest pleasure in sex is not just physical—it’s the satisfaction of knowing that he has "conquered" his woman, pleased her, and fulfilled his natural role. Men don’t chase sex just for a few seconds of pleasure. They do it because it reaffirms their strength, their power, their ability to satisfy their woman, and ultimately, their role as a protector and provider. This dominance-driven pleasure fuels their willingness to bear responsibilities, raise children, and provide for their families. If Sex Is About Reproduction, Why Do Humans Continue Even When Pregnancy Isn’t the Goal? Good question. Other creatures mate solely for reproduction. But humans are the only species that enjoy this pleasure beyond just procreation. Why? Because God designed sex not just for reproduction, but also for bonding, stress relief, and maintaining emotional harmony between partners. This is why, even when pregnancy is not the goal, a couple continues to engage in intimacy regularly. Without this constant cycle of pleasure, emotional connection, and intimacy, relationships would suffer. A woman, after experiencing the pain of childbirth, might never want to go through it again. A man, burdened with responsibilities, might lose his motivation to work and provide. But sex keeps the system running. The Divine Balance God, in His wisdom, has allowed couples the freedom to experience intimacy whenever they desire, with no legal or religious restrictions, as long as it happens within marriage. Both man and woman receive their fair share of pleasure: The man experiences intense gratification, emotional release, and dominance satisfaction. The woman enjoys profound, long-lasting pleasure—up to ten times more than the man. Less effort, greater reward. Sex is not just a biological act. It is a divine gift, a system of balance, and an eternal bond between two souls. #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou #Relationship/Sex
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  • The parable of the 10 virgins.

    Like the parable, humans always tend to cry had I known I would have done it better but this was a concrete example of how it really is.

    Preparation met with opportunity is the real deal cause it changes ones life.
    The best time to prepare was yesterday, the second best time is now, so endeavor to prepare to be as the 5 wise that optimized the opportunity they had.

    #Focus
    #preparationiskey
    #happyweekend
    The parable of the 10 virgins. Like the parable, humans always tend to cry had I known I would have done it better but this was a concrete example of how it really is. Preparation met with opportunity is the real deal cause it changes ones life. The best time to prepare was yesterday, the second best time is now, so endeavor to prepare to be as the 5 wise that optimized the opportunity they had. #Focus #preparationiskey #happyweekend
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  • The comeback is always stronger than the setback. #Favour #Bisi28
    The comeback is always stronger than the setback. #Favour #Bisi28
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  • SALVATION


    The very day I was born,
    I turned a prisoner in the camp of the devil;
    With deeds and thoughts ever torn,
    Due to the struggle between good and evil.

    Often what I would not, that I do;
    And what I would, that I do not.
    Evil always overcame good,
    And sin my taskmaster dictated every step I took.

    Suddenly one day, there shone a marvelous light,
    Which in it's wake caused darkness to take flight;
    My spirit was drawn to it like moth to flame,
    A bloody cross where redemption awaited me to lay claim.

    Without the slightest delay or hesitation,
    I **** my burdens at the foot of the cross;
    Took upon me the mark of salvation,
    And joyfully stepped across

    Ever since, I've known joy beyond comprehension,
    And peace unimaginable;
    For my past life of guilt and tension,
    Was only leading me to hell full of torments unbearable.

    Author: Joy O. Chiazor
    #Poetry
    #Happiness
    #OnyeJay
    #TeamA
    #Nakupenda
    SALVATION The very day I was born, I turned a prisoner in the camp of the devil; With deeds and thoughts ever torn, Due to the struggle between good and evil. Often what I would not, that I do; And what I would, that I do not. Evil always overcame good, And sin my taskmaster dictated every step I took. Suddenly one day, there shone a marvelous light, Which in it's wake caused darkness to take flight; My spirit was drawn to it like moth to flame, A bloody cross where redemption awaited me to lay claim. Without the slightest delay or hesitation, I laid my burdens at the foot of the cross; Took upon me the mark of salvation, And joyfully stepped across Ever since, I've known joy beyond comprehension, And peace unimaginable; For my past life of guilt and tension, Was only leading me to hell full of torments unbearable. Author: Joy O. Chiazor 😌 #Poetry #Happiness #OnyeJay #TeamA #Nakupenda
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  • Always be #grateful 🙏🏽 that God loves you

    #PeaceOfMind
    Always be #grateful 🙏🏽 that God loves you #PeaceOfMind
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  • *SUCCESS IS A DECISION!*

    Every day, people make choices.

    *Some are earning*—because they took action.

    *Some are watching*—waiting for the "perfect moment" that never comes.

    *Some are joining*—seeking a breakthrough.

    *Some are leaving*—because they didn’t see results fast enough.

    *Some have joined, but not working*—hoping success will come without effort.

    *Some are confirmed spectators*—always watching, never doing.

    *Some don't know why they joined the group*—lost in indecision.

    *Some joined, but don't know what is happening*—because they never asked or learned.

    *Some joined to copy and paste*—but success isn’t a shortcut, it’s a journey.

    But no matter where you stand today, *ONE THING IS SURE:*

    Success is not about luck.

    Success is not about talent.

    Success is a *DECISION.*

    #happiness
    *SUCCESS IS A DECISION!* Every day, people make choices. 💥 *Some are earning*—because they took action. 💥 *Some are watching*—waiting for the "perfect moment" that never comes. 💥 *Some are joining*—seeking a breakthrough. 💥 *Some are leaving*—because they didn’t see results fast enough. 💥 *Some have joined, but not working*—hoping success will come without effort. 💥 *Some are confirmed spectators*—always watching, never doing. 💥 *Some don't know why they joined the group*—lost in indecision. 💥 *Some joined, but don't know what is happening*—because they never asked or learned. 💥 *Some joined to copy and paste*—but success isn’t a shortcut, it’s a journey. But no matter where you stand today, *ONE THING IS SURE:* ✅ Success is not about luck. ✅ Success is not about talent. ✅ Success is a *DECISION.* #happiness
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  • You Become What You Consistently Feed On

    Just as our bodies reflect the kind of food we consume—healthy or unhealthy—so do our minds and souls mirror the kind of information, news, and resources we allow in.

    A person who constantly listens to negative news and toxic information will soon find their thoughts, speech, and actions drenched in negativity. It shows in how they talk, how they act, and how they treat others.

    On the other hand, someone who feeds on uplifting, positive, and life-giving content will naturally radiate hope, joy, and strength. Their words build up. Their actions encourage. Their presence inspires.

    People may not always notice what you're feeding on—but they’ll always see the fruit it bears.

    Guard your heart, mind, and soul.
    Because you become what you consistently feed on.

    #Ngo_123 #grace
    You Become What You Consistently Feed On Just as our bodies reflect the kind of food we consume—healthy or unhealthy—so do our minds and souls mirror the kind of information, news, and resources we allow in. A person who constantly listens to negative news and toxic information will soon find their thoughts, speech, and actions drenched in negativity. It shows in how they talk, how they act, and how they treat others. On the other hand, someone who feeds on uplifting, positive, and life-giving content will naturally radiate hope, joy, and strength. Their words build up. Their actions encourage. Their presence inspires. People may not always notice what you're feeding on—but they’ll always see the fruit it bears. Guard your heart, mind, and soul. Because you become what you consistently feed on. #Ngo_123 #grace
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  • Always remember
    NO PAIN NO GAIN
    #passion
    Always remember NO PAIN NO GAIN #passion
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  • What Didn't I Do...?

    The pain of failure after fulfilling all the odds and ends stings more than that of someone who never tried at all. Why? Because your results don’t always reflect the tears, hard work, and grit you poured into the process. It’s a plight many of us can relate to.

    In frustration, we might blame God. We might blame the system—or even ourselves. But what if we looked at things differently?

    What didn't I do?

    Sometimes, viewing things from a narrower, more honest perspective reveals the flaws, oversights, and missteps we ignored at the start. Reflection isn't always about what you did wrong—it’s about what you didn’t do right.

    To grow, sometimes you have to identify what you didn’t do in order to improve what you did.

    © Juliet Chinenyenwa Alex
    #grace
    #julietchinenyenwaalex
    What Didn't I Do...? The pain of failure after fulfilling all the odds and ends stings more than that of someone who never tried at all. Why? Because your results don’t always reflect the tears, hard work, and grit you poured into the process. It’s a plight many of us can relate to. In frustration, we might blame God. We might blame the system—or even ourselves. But what if we looked at things differently? What didn't I do? Sometimes, viewing things from a narrower, more honest perspective reveals the flaws, oversights, and missteps we ignored at the start. Reflection isn't always about what you did wrong—it’s about what you didn’t do right. To grow, sometimes you have to identify what you didn’t do in order to improve what you did. © Juliet Chinenyenwa Alex #grace #julietchinenyenwaalex
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  • @veey~collection
    Never feel bad on what people will say or do to you always try your best in life .always be happy
    #passion
    #love
    #happy
    @veey~collection Never feel bad on what people will say or do to you always try your best in life .always be happy #passion #love #happy
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  • Am always#Grateful to the lord
    Am always#Grateful to the lord 🙏🙏🙏
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  • So I usually give my neighbor's son, Jeremy, a lift to school whenever I am going to work. He knows I leave home by 7 so by 6:30 he is at my gate waiting for me to take him to school.

    He is always on time and never comes late. I felt the mother was helping him keep to time as well but I never asked. Me and her has never spoken or talked before. I rarely see her because she leaves home as early as 6 am and returns late at night.

    Something bothered me.

    Anytime I drop Jeremy at school, he says thank you, Dad embraces me and runs off.

    Haa!

    I felt it was strange. I wondered why he called me dad instead of Uncle.

    So I asked him one time while taking him to school.

    "How about your daddy?"

    "I don't know him. Mum says he is somewhere and she doesn't know where."

    "So why do you call me daddy when I drop you off in school."

    "Well because I see you as my daddy. In my school, everyone's dad drops them off at school. And you drop me off at school too."

    I smiled.

    I understood where the dad thing was coming from.

    On Friday, while driving him to school I noticed he was not happy. He was very quiet all through the ride. I asked him what the problem was and he told me.

    "Our school asked our parents to come for an important meeting on Monday. Mummy said she will not be able to come because she will be busy in Monday."

    "Is that why you are sad?"

    He nodded his head.

    "Everyone father and mother will come. My mother will not be there."

    I asked him to cheer up.

    On Monday morning, after I dropped him off at school. He came down and said bye Dad.

    I noticed he wasn't happy.

    I drove off and by 9am I decided to return to the school to attend the meeting.

    When his mates saw me, someone shouted.

    "Jeremy, see your daddy. He shouted and ran to embrace me."

    He held my hands and took me to where the meeting was being held.

    After the meeting, I left.

    He was very happy I showed up. I could see the pride in his face.

    This morning, I waited for Jeremy and didn't see him. I went to his house and was told he had gone to school.

    This is the first time in 2 months he is going without me.

    I am just worried.

    Really worried.

    My name is Eze chibuzo and I am the best at what I do.
    #Discipline
    #nakupenda
    ™ So I usually give my neighbor's son, Jeremy, a lift to school whenever I am going to work. He knows I leave home by 7 so by 6:30 he is at my gate waiting for me to take him to school. He is always on time and never comes late. I felt the mother was helping him keep to time as well but I never asked. Me and her has never spoken or talked before. I rarely see her because she leaves home as early as 6 am and returns late at night. Something bothered me. Anytime I drop Jeremy at school, he says thank you, Dad embraces me and runs off. Haa! I felt it was strange. I wondered why he called me dad instead of Uncle. So I asked him one time while taking him to school. "How about your daddy?" "I don't know him. Mum says he is somewhere and she doesn't know where." "So why do you call me daddy when I drop you off in school." "Well because I see you as my daddy. In my school, everyone's dad drops them off at school. And you drop me off at school too." I smiled. I understood where the dad thing was coming from. On Friday, while driving him to school I noticed he was not happy. He was very quiet all through the ride. I asked him what the problem was and he told me. "Our school asked our parents to come for an important meeting on Monday. Mummy said she will not be able to come because she will be busy in Monday." "Is that why you are sad?" He nodded his head. "Everyone father and mother will come. My mother will not be there." I asked him to cheer up. On Monday morning, after I dropped him off at school. He came down and said bye Dad. I noticed he wasn't happy. I drove off and by 9am I decided to return to the school to attend the meeting. When his mates saw me, someone shouted. "Jeremy, see your daddy. He shouted and ran to embrace me." He held my hands and took me to where the meeting was being held. After the meeting, I left. He was very happy I showed up. I could see the pride in his face. This morning, I waited for Jeremy and didn't see him. I went to his house and was told he had gone to school. This is the first time in 2 months he is going without me. I am just worried. Really worried. My name is Eze chibuzo and I am the best at what I do. #Discipline #nakupenda
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