• Happy Easter Nakupenda family! Bring your business deals ranging from real estate, surveying, valuation and facilities management. Am at your service!
    Happy Easter Nakupenda family! Bring your business deals ranging from real estate, surveying, valuation and facilities management. Am at your service! 🤗😃
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  • Who Truly Benefits from Sex? Man or Woman?

    The first thought that likely came to your mind was—man. Right? Most people instinctively assume that men derive more pleasure from sex, while women merely endure it. But you might be surprised to learn that reality is quite the opposite.

    Whether the act lasts five minutes or fifty, a man’s pleasure is condensed into the final five to ten seconds. In contrast, a woman can experience ****** up to ten times in a single sexual encounter. That means a woman has the potential to enjoy ten times more pleasure than a man. Moreover, the duration of a woman's ****** is typically twice or even three times longer than that of a man.

    Of course, not every woman reaches this peak every time. Some may rarely experience it, while others, on average, enjoy it three times per encounter—which is still significantly more than men. Less effort, more reward. This is an undeniable fact.

    But There’s More to the Story…

    ****** is simply the peak. The journey leading up to it is filled with pleasurable moments, intimate sensations, and deep emotional connections that keep both partners engaged. Both men and women derive enjoyment throughout the experience, but the ultimate climax marks the grand finale.

    Wise lovers understand that sex is not just about reaching the peak—it’s about savoring every moment of the journey.

    But If Women Benefit More, Why Are Men Always the Ones Pursuing It?

    The answer is simple: instinct.

    God designed sex as a reward system to encourage reproduction. Since women bear the greater burden of pregnancy—carrying a child for nine months—they were naturally endowed with a greater pleasure incentive to ensure they willingly partake in the process. Smart women embrace this natural gift, while the unaware may deprive themselves of it.

    Let’s be honest—if childbirth pain was the only reward, no woman would ever want to go through it again. But two things keep her coming back:

    The innate maternal instinct God has placed within her.

    The unparalleled pleasure and emotional fulfillment that comes with sex.

    Funny But True…

    It’s often said that during labor, women curse their husbands, blaming them for the unbearable pain they are experiencing.

    But can you deny the reality that the same woman, after delivering her child, willingly prepares for another pregnancy within a year?

    No man forces her into it. There’s no gunpoint coercion.

    It’s instinct.
    It’s pleasure.
    It’s God’s divine system at work.

    But Then, Why Do Men Chase Women If They Get Less Pleasure?

    Again, instinct and dominance.

    God has naturally instilled in men a desire to dominate and lead. A man's greatest pleasure in sex is not just physical—it’s the satisfaction of knowing that he has "conquered" his woman, pleased her, and fulfilled his natural role.

    Men don’t chase sex just for a few seconds of pleasure. They do it because it reaffirms their strength, their power, their ability to satisfy their woman, and ultimately, their role as a protector and provider.

    This dominance-driven pleasure fuels their willingness to bear responsibilities, raise children, and provide for their families.

    If Sex Is About Reproduction, Why Do Humans Continue Even When Pregnancy Isn’t the Goal?

    Good question. Other creatures mate solely for reproduction. But humans are the only species that enjoy this pleasure beyond just procreation.

    Why? Because God designed sex not just for reproduction, but also for bonding, stress relief, and maintaining emotional harmony between partners.

    This is why, even when pregnancy is not the goal, a couple continues to engage in intimacy regularly.

    Without this constant cycle of pleasure, emotional connection, and intimacy, relationships would suffer. A woman, after experiencing the pain of childbirth, might never want to go through it again. A man, burdened with responsibilities, might lose his motivation to work and provide.

    But sex keeps the system running.

    The Divine Balance

    God, in His wisdom, has allowed couples the freedom to experience intimacy whenever they desire, with no legal or religious restrictions, as long as it happens within marriage.

    Both man and woman receive their fair share of pleasure:

    The man experiences intense gratification, emotional release, and dominance satisfaction.

    The woman enjoys profound, long-lasting pleasure—up to ten times more than the man.

    Less effort, greater reward.

    Sex is not just a biological act. It is a divine gift, a system of balance, and an eternal bond between two souls.

    #nakupenda
    #Utom58
    #De_NextVerYou
    #Relationship/Sex
    Who Truly Benefits from Sex? Man or Woman? The first thought that likely came to your mind was—man. Right? Most people instinctively assume that men derive more pleasure from sex, while women merely endure it. But you might be surprised to learn that reality is quite the opposite. Whether the act lasts five minutes or fifty, a man’s pleasure is condensed into the final five to ten seconds. In contrast, a woman can experience orgasm up to ten times in a single sexual encounter. That means a woman has the potential to enjoy ten times more pleasure than a man. Moreover, the duration of a woman's orgasm is typically twice or even three times longer than that of a man. Of course, not every woman reaches this peak every time. Some may rarely experience it, while others, on average, enjoy it three times per encounter—which is still significantly more than men. Less effort, more reward. This is an undeniable fact. But There’s More to the Story… Orgasm is simply the peak. The journey leading up to it is filled with pleasurable moments, intimate sensations, and deep emotional connections that keep both partners engaged. Both men and women derive enjoyment throughout the experience, but the ultimate climax marks the grand finale. Wise lovers understand that sex is not just about reaching the peak—it’s about savoring every moment of the journey. But If Women Benefit More, Why Are Men Always the Ones Pursuing It? The answer is simple: instinct. God designed sex as a reward system to encourage reproduction. Since women bear the greater burden of pregnancy—carrying a child for nine months—they were naturally endowed with a greater pleasure incentive to ensure they willingly partake in the process. Smart women embrace this natural gift, while the unaware may deprive themselves of it. Let’s be honest—if childbirth pain was the only reward, no woman would ever want to go through it again. But two things keep her coming back: The innate maternal instinct God has placed within her. The unparalleled pleasure and emotional fulfillment that comes with sex. Funny But True… It’s often said that during labor, women curse their husbands, blaming them for the unbearable pain they are experiencing. But can you deny the reality that the same woman, after delivering her child, willingly prepares for another pregnancy within a year? No man forces her into it. There’s no gunpoint coercion. It’s instinct. It’s pleasure. It’s God’s divine system at work. But Then, Why Do Men Chase Women If They Get Less Pleasure? Again, instinct and dominance. God has naturally instilled in men a desire to dominate and lead. A man's greatest pleasure in sex is not just physical—it’s the satisfaction of knowing that he has "conquered" his woman, pleased her, and fulfilled his natural role. Men don’t chase sex just for a few seconds of pleasure. They do it because it reaffirms their strength, their power, their ability to satisfy their woman, and ultimately, their role as a protector and provider. This dominance-driven pleasure fuels their willingness to bear responsibilities, raise children, and provide for their families. If Sex Is About Reproduction, Why Do Humans Continue Even When Pregnancy Isn’t the Goal? Good question. Other creatures mate solely for reproduction. But humans are the only species that enjoy this pleasure beyond just procreation. Why? Because God designed sex not just for reproduction, but also for bonding, stress relief, and maintaining emotional harmony between partners. This is why, even when pregnancy is not the goal, a couple continues to engage in intimacy regularly. Without this constant cycle of pleasure, emotional connection, and intimacy, relationships would suffer. A woman, after experiencing the pain of childbirth, might never want to go through it again. A man, burdened with responsibilities, might lose his motivation to work and provide. But sex keeps the system running. The Divine Balance God, in His wisdom, has allowed couples the freedom to experience intimacy whenever they desire, with no legal or religious restrictions, as long as it happens within marriage. Both man and woman receive their fair share of pleasure: The man experiences intense gratification, emotional release, and dominance satisfaction. The woman enjoys profound, long-lasting pleasure—up to ten times more than the man. Less effort, greater reward. Sex is not just a biological act. It is a divine gift, a system of balance, and an eternal bond between two souls. #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou #Relationship/Sex
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    New Music Alert!
    "Tabitha" by Goldflyboy is out now!
    If you’re vibing with real emotion, smooth flows, and unforgettable hooks, this one’s for you.

    Listen now: https://songwhip.com/goldflyboy/tabitha
    Let it ride, share it with your people, and let me know what you think in the comments!

    #Goldflyboy #Tabitha #NewMusic #NowPlaying #HipHopVibes #RapSoul #nowplaying #Nakupenda #Growsafe #GROW #nowstreaming #streamnow

    New Music Alert! "Tabitha" by Goldflyboy is out now! If you’re vibing with real emotion, smooth flows, and unforgettable hooks, this one’s for you. Listen now: 👇https://songwhip.com/goldflyboy/tabitha Let it ride, share it with your people, and let me know what you think in the comments! #Goldflyboy #Tabitha #NewMusic #NowPlaying #HipHopVibes #RapSoul #nowplaying #Nakupenda #Growsafe #GROW #nowstreaming #streamnow
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  • When it’s real you don’t have to tell them how you’d like to be treated,
    #passion
    #fortuneandre
    When it’s real you don’t have to tell them how you’d like to be treated, #passion #fortuneandre
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  • Five Things to Teach Your Girl Child — A Must-Read for Every Female Child

    Your worth isn't measured by your body.
    Educate your mind, not just your looks. Real value is found in wisdom, not in waistlines.

    Dream big — God is big enough to handle it.
    No dream is too big when faith and hard work meet. Refuse to shrink to fit the world's small expectations.

    Know that beauty fades, but character lasts.
    Charm can draw attention, but character commands respect. Build a heart and soul that will stand the test of time.

    Financial independence is not optional.
    Learn to earn, save, and invest early. A girl who controls her finances controls her future.

    Your voice matters — use it.
    Speak up for what you believe, even if your voice shakes. Silence has never been the pathway to change.
    #Ngo_123 #grace
    Five Things to Teach Your Girl Child — A Must-Read for Every Female Child 📌 Your worth isn't measured by your body. Educate your mind, not just your looks. Real value is found in wisdom, not in waistlines. 📌 Dream big — God is big enough to handle it. No dream is too big when faith and hard work meet. Refuse to shrink to fit the world's small expectations. 📌 Know that beauty fades, but character lasts. Charm can draw attention, but character commands respect. Build a heart and soul that will stand the test of time. 📌 Financial independence is not optional. Learn to earn, save, and invest early. A girl who controls her finances controls her future. 📌 Your voice matters — use it. Speak up for what you believe, even if your voice shakes. Silence has never been the pathway to change. #Ngo_123 #grace
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  • "They say I bought a baby. That I skipped the pain of pr£gnancy because I’m too focused on beauty and fame. Some even said I was ashamed to carry a child without a husband.

    But here’s the real story they don’t know. After years of smiling in public and crying behind closed doors… after losing not one, but multiple pregnancies… I decided I couldn’t keep waiting for the “perfect” man or the “perfect” moment. I was tired of society’s d£adlines for women like me.

    So I made a choice. A bold one. I chose surr0gacy—not because I was running from motherhood, but because I was ready for it on my own terms.

    My daughter came into this world through another woman’s w0mb, but she is 100% mine. Blood of my blood. Heart of my heart. She calls me “mummy,” and that’s all the validation I need.

    Let them g0ssip. Let them twist the story. I have my baby—and peace. That’s more than enough."

    — Ini Edo
    #Discipline
    #nakupenda
    "They say I bought a baby. That I skipped the pain of pr£gnancy because I’m too focused on beauty and fame. Some even said I was ashamed to carry a child without a husband. But here’s the real story they don’t know. After years of smiling in public and crying behind closed doors… after losing not one, but multiple pregnancies… I decided I couldn’t keep waiting for the “perfect” man or the “perfect” moment. I was tired of society’s d£adlines for women like me. So I made a choice. A bold one. I chose surr0gacy—not because I was running from motherhood, but because I was ready for it on my own terms. My daughter came into this world through another woman’s w0mb, but she is 100% mine. Blood of my blood. Heart of my heart. She calls me “mummy,” and that’s all the validation I need. Let them g0ssip. Let them twist the story. I have my baby—and peace. That’s more than enough." — Ini Edo #Discipline #nakupenda
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  • People would worry less about what others think of them if they only realize how seldom they do . #Greatful.
    People would worry less about what others think of them if they only realize how seldom they do . #Greatful.
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  • Happy nurses week to all of the amazing nurses out there, we are the real mvps
    Happy nurses week to all of the amazing nurses out there, we are the real mvps
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  • Some time ago, I accompanied a friend to a conference at a hotel, where he was scheduled to meet someone. While waiting for him in the lobby area just outside one of the conference halls, I sat quietly, scrolling through my phone and minding my business.

    After a while, I noticed people going in and out of the hall beside me. Curiosity made me look up. A PhD defense was ongoing, I wasn’t really paying attention until I heard gentle clapping from inside the hall.

    Then came the turn of a middle-aged man, probably in his late 50s. He stood at the front with a soft, shaky demeanor. He spoke slowly, carefully picking his words. Every few sentences, he paused.. not for effect, but because he stuttered. Still, each time he managed to get through a point, the audience clapped.. not out of pity, but in admiration and respect.

    Toward the end, his voice broke. He asked everyone to kindly rise for a minute silence in honor of his wife, who had recently passed away. And in that moment of silence, he broke down in tears.

    What I learned afterward left me speechless.

    The man had only a diploma in Business Administration when he got married. His wife, a successful banker, pushed him to go back to school. She supported him through a BSc, then a master’s, and finally the PhD program he was now completing.

    But just months before he would earn the title “Doctor,” his wife lost her life to breast ******.

    He was shattered. She had been his strength, his motivation, and his helper. She had even taken time off her busy banking schedule to help him share questionnaires during his research. Though she herself had only a master’s degree, she pushed her husband beyond that point, right up to the very top.

    Now here he was, defending his thesis without her beside him.

    That’s when I truly understood the kind of love that doesn’t compete, the kind of spouse who gives you wings to fly without fear of your success.

    Not everyone is lucky to have such a partner, one who celebrates your growth, fights for your dream like it’s theirs, and stands by you even when life tries to break you.

    #knowledge
    #Blessing

    Some time ago, I accompanied a friend to a conference at a hotel, where he was scheduled to meet someone. While waiting for him in the lobby area just outside one of the conference halls, I sat quietly, scrolling through my phone and minding my business. After a while, I noticed people going in and out of the hall beside me. Curiosity made me look up. A PhD defense was ongoing, I wasn’t really paying attention until I heard gentle clapping from inside the hall. Then came the turn of a middle-aged man, probably in his late 50s. He stood at the front with a soft, shaky demeanor. He spoke slowly, carefully picking his words. Every few sentences, he paused.. not for effect, but because he stuttered. Still, each time he managed to get through a point, the audience clapped.. not out of pity, but in admiration and respect. Toward the end, his voice broke. He asked everyone to kindly rise for a minute silence in honor of his wife, who had recently passed away. And in that moment of silence, he broke down in tears. What I learned afterward left me speechless. The man had only a diploma in Business Administration when he got married. His wife, a successful banker, pushed him to go back to school. She supported him through a BSc, then a master’s, and finally the PhD program he was now completing. But just months before he would earn the title “Doctor,” his wife lost her life to breast cancer. He was shattered. She had been his strength, his motivation, and his helper. She had even taken time off her busy banking schedule to help him share questionnaires during his research. Though she herself had only a master’s degree, she pushed her husband beyond that point, right up to the very top. Now here he was, defending his thesis without her beside him. That’s when I truly understood the kind of love that doesn’t compete, the kind of spouse who gives you wings to fly without fear of your success. Not everyone is lucky to have such a partner, one who celebrates your growth, fights for your dream like it’s theirs, and stands by you even when life tries to break you. #knowledge #Blessing
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  • A man took some loan, bought a house, it was about to be seized, just because he could not repay the loan and interest as agreed.

    He posted his situation on Facebook looking for help, but all he could get was zero comments.

    So he sent 250 messages to his contact list requesting a loan of #2,000,000.

    Unfortunately only 10 people responded. 6 out of 10 said they could not help him. And only 1 out of 4 who promised to help and gave him some money.

    The other 3 gave excuse and never took his calls.

    In the end, he was ejected.
    He did not have a place to sleep. He walked in the dark looking for options and unfortunately, A thief stole his empty purse with his ID.

    The thief was badly hit by a car in high speed as he fled and died without his body being identified.

    Only the bag containing the identity card served as a marker.

    The next day the news spread quickly around that he (the Man) had died.

    2,500 people posted on his Facebook wall how they knew him and how kind he was.

    A committee was formed by his"faithful" friends who raised #7,500.000 to feed people at his funeral.

    His work colleagues organized themselves and brought #11.5m for the coffin, the tents and the chairs.

    He had to be buried in a coffin worth #3,500.000 but as they hastily bouht it there was a man who sold it to them for #2.000,000 saying it was his contribution.

    The family met again, it was a rare opportunity for the family to meet again.

    Then there was a sitting. For the funeral, the family contributed #4,000,000.

    Everyone wanted to volunteer to show that they were participating.

    They printed t-shirts and polos for more than #850,000.

    Now imagine the scene when he decided to show himself up on the day of his burial...

    While everyone run helter skelter thinking they'd seen a ghost, the man felt embittered, seeing how both family and friends that abandoned him at his darkest hours, extravagantly spent all they had, on mere carcass...

    So is life today, A sad reality but part of our daily lives.

    It will surprise you to learn that bulk of all those who talk about how much they love the deceased on burial days, are those who never showed him care and love, when he was alive.

    Yet, they'll talk from Lagos to abuja, how much they loved him.

    When a family member is in dire financial need, nobody will help...but the moment he's dead, money will come from all hidings...

    Help your brother/sister when he/she needs you.

    Do not wait for their death to show them your love. It will not help them.
    #Discipline
    #loveONEanother
    #nakupenda
    A man took some loan, bought a house, it was about to be seized, just because he could not repay the loan and interest as agreed. He posted his situation on Facebook looking for help, but all he could get was zero comments. So he sent 250 messages to his contact list requesting a loan of #2,000,000. Unfortunately only 10 people responded. 6 out of 10 said they could not help him. And only 1 out of 4 who promised to help and gave him some money. The other 3 gave excuse and never took his calls. In the end, he was ejected. He did not have a place to sleep. He walked in the dark looking for options and unfortunately, A thief stole his empty purse with his ID. The thief was badly hit by a car in high speed as he fled and died without his body being identified. Only the bag containing the identity card served as a marker. The next day the news spread quickly around that he (the Man) had died. 2,500 people posted on his Facebook wall how they knew him and how kind he was. A committee was formed by his"faithful" friends who raised #7,500.000 to feed people at his funeral. His work colleagues organized themselves and brought #11.5m for the coffin, the tents and the chairs. He had to be buried in a coffin worth #3,500.000 but as they hastily bouht it there was a man who sold it to them for #2.000,000 saying it was his contribution. The family met again, it was a rare opportunity for the family to meet again. Then there was a sitting. For the funeral, the family contributed #4,000,000. Everyone wanted to volunteer to show that they were participating. They printed t-shirts and polos for more than #850,000. Now imagine the scene when he decided to show himself up on the day of his burial... While everyone run helter skelter thinking they'd seen a ghost, the man felt embittered, seeing how both family and friends that abandoned him at his darkest hours, extravagantly spent all they had, on mere carcass... So is life today, A sad reality but part of our daily lives. It will surprise you to learn that bulk of all those who talk about how much they love the deceased on burial days, are those who never showed him care and love, when he was alive. Yet, they'll talk from Lagos to abuja, how much they loved him. When a family member is in dire financial need, nobody will help...but the moment he's dead, money will come from all hidings...🤔 Help your brother/sister when he/she needs you. Do not wait for their death to show them your love. It will not help them. #Discipline #loveONEanother #nakupenda
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  • ManU, Chelsea, and Tottenham made it into the finals of UEFA's Continental competitions, but the real winner is PSG. The team from the Farmers League made it to the UCL final, beating 4 of England's top 6 teams along the way. They say Pride goes before a fall, so we might soon be calling the EPL a farmers' league at this rate.
    ManU, Chelsea, and Tottenham made it into the finals of UEFA's Continental competitions, but the real winner is PSG. The team from the Farmers League made it to the UCL final, beating 4 of England's top 6 teams along the way. They say Pride goes before a fall, so we might soon be calling the EPL a farmers' league at this rate.
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  • The parable of the 10 virgins.

    Like the parable, humans always tend to cry had I known I would have done it better but this was a concrete example of how it really is.

    Preparation met with opportunity is the real deal cause it changes ones life.
    The best time to prepare was yesterday, the second best time is now, so endeavor to prepare to be as the 5 wise that optimized the opportunity they had.

    #Focus
    #preparationiskey
    #happyweekend
    The parable of the 10 virgins. Like the parable, humans always tend to cry had I known I would have done it better but this was a concrete example of how it really is. Preparation met with opportunity is the real deal cause it changes ones life. The best time to prepare was yesterday, the second best time is now, so endeavor to prepare to be as the 5 wise that optimized the opportunity they had. #Focus #preparationiskey #happyweekend
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