• Who Truly Benefits from Sex? Man or Woman?

    The first thought that likely came to your mind was—man. Right? Most people instinctively assume that men derive more pleasure from sex, while women merely endure it. But you might be surprised to learn that reality is quite the opposite.

    Whether the act lasts five minutes or fifty, a man’s pleasure is condensed into the final five to ten seconds. In contrast, a woman can experience ****** up to ten times in a single sexual encounter. That means a woman has the potential to enjoy ten times more pleasure than a man. Moreover, the duration of a woman's ****** is typically twice or even three times longer than that of a man.

    Of course, not every woman reaches this peak every time. Some may rarely experience it, while others, on average, enjoy it three times per encounter—which is still significantly more than men. Less effort, more reward. This is an undeniable fact.

    But There’s More to the Story…

    ****** is simply the peak. The journey leading up to it is filled with pleasurable moments, intimate sensations, and deep emotional connections that keep both partners engaged. Both men and women derive enjoyment throughout the experience, but the ultimate climax marks the grand finale.

    Wise lovers understand that sex is not just about reaching the peak—it’s about savoring every moment of the journey.

    But If Women Benefit More, Why Are Men Always the Ones Pursuing It?

    The answer is simple: instinct.

    God designed sex as a reward system to encourage reproduction. Since women bear the greater burden of pregnancy—carrying a child for nine months—they were naturally endowed with a greater pleasure incentive to ensure they willingly partake in the process. Smart women embrace this natural gift, while the unaware may deprive themselves of it.

    Let’s be honest—if childbirth pain was the only reward, no woman would ever want to go through it again. But two things keep her coming back:

    The innate maternal instinct God has placed within her.

    The unparalleled pleasure and emotional fulfillment that comes with sex.

    Funny But True…

    It’s often said that during labor, women curse their husbands, blaming them for the unbearable pain they are experiencing.

    But can you deny the reality that the same woman, after delivering her child, willingly prepares for another pregnancy within a year?

    No man forces her into it. There’s no gunpoint coercion.

    It’s instinct.
    It’s pleasure.
    It’s God’s divine system at work.

    But Then, Why Do Men Chase Women If They Get Less Pleasure?

    Again, instinct and dominance.

    God has naturally instilled in men a desire to dominate and lead. A man's greatest pleasure in sex is not just physical—it’s the satisfaction of knowing that he has "conquered" his woman, pleased her, and fulfilled his natural role.

    Men don’t chase sex just for a few seconds of pleasure. They do it because it reaffirms their strength, their power, their ability to satisfy their woman, and ultimately, their role as a protector and provider.

    This dominance-driven pleasure fuels their willingness to bear responsibilities, raise children, and provide for their families.

    If Sex Is About Reproduction, Why Do Humans Continue Even When Pregnancy Isn’t the Goal?

    Good question. Other creatures mate solely for reproduction. But humans are the only species that enjoy this pleasure beyond just procreation.

    Why? Because God designed sex not just for reproduction, but also for bonding, stress relief, and maintaining emotional harmony between partners.

    This is why, even when pregnancy is not the goal, a couple continues to engage in intimacy regularly.

    Without this constant cycle of pleasure, emotional connection, and intimacy, relationships would suffer. A woman, after experiencing the pain of childbirth, might never want to go through it again. A man, burdened with responsibilities, might lose his motivation to work and provide.

    But sex keeps the system running.

    The Divine Balance

    God, in His wisdom, has allowed couples the freedom to experience intimacy whenever they desire, with no legal or religious restrictions, as long as it happens within marriage.

    Both man and woman receive their fair share of pleasure:

    The man experiences intense gratification, emotional release, and dominance satisfaction.

    The woman enjoys profound, long-lasting pleasure—up to ten times more than the man.

    Less effort, greater reward.

    Sex is not just a biological act. It is a divine gift, a system of balance, and an eternal bond between two souls.

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    #Utom58
    #De_NextVerYou
    #Relationship/Sex
    Who Truly Benefits from Sex? Man or Woman? The first thought that likely came to your mind was—man. Right? Most people instinctively assume that men derive more pleasure from sex, while women merely endure it. But you might be surprised to learn that reality is quite the opposite. Whether the act lasts five minutes or fifty, a man’s pleasure is condensed into the final five to ten seconds. In contrast, a woman can experience orgasm up to ten times in a single sexual encounter. That means a woman has the potential to enjoy ten times more pleasure than a man. Moreover, the duration of a woman's orgasm is typically twice or even three times longer than that of a man. Of course, not every woman reaches this peak every time. Some may rarely experience it, while others, on average, enjoy it three times per encounter—which is still significantly more than men. Less effort, more reward. This is an undeniable fact. But There’s More to the Story… Orgasm is simply the peak. The journey leading up to it is filled with pleasurable moments, intimate sensations, and deep emotional connections that keep both partners engaged. Both men and women derive enjoyment throughout the experience, but the ultimate climax marks the grand finale. Wise lovers understand that sex is not just about reaching the peak—it’s about savoring every moment of the journey. But If Women Benefit More, Why Are Men Always the Ones Pursuing It? The answer is simple: instinct. God designed sex as a reward system to encourage reproduction. Since women bear the greater burden of pregnancy—carrying a child for nine months—they were naturally endowed with a greater pleasure incentive to ensure they willingly partake in the process. Smart women embrace this natural gift, while the unaware may deprive themselves of it. Let’s be honest—if childbirth pain was the only reward, no woman would ever want to go through it again. But two things keep her coming back: The innate maternal instinct God has placed within her. The unparalleled pleasure and emotional fulfillment that comes with sex. Funny But True… It’s often said that during labor, women curse their husbands, blaming them for the unbearable pain they are experiencing. But can you deny the reality that the same woman, after delivering her child, willingly prepares for another pregnancy within a year? No man forces her into it. There’s no gunpoint coercion. It’s instinct. It’s pleasure. It’s God’s divine system at work. But Then, Why Do Men Chase Women If They Get Less Pleasure? Again, instinct and dominance. God has naturally instilled in men a desire to dominate and lead. A man's greatest pleasure in sex is not just physical—it’s the satisfaction of knowing that he has "conquered" his woman, pleased her, and fulfilled his natural role. Men don’t chase sex just for a few seconds of pleasure. They do it because it reaffirms their strength, their power, their ability to satisfy their woman, and ultimately, their role as a protector and provider. This dominance-driven pleasure fuels their willingness to bear responsibilities, raise children, and provide for their families. If Sex Is About Reproduction, Why Do Humans Continue Even When Pregnancy Isn’t the Goal? Good question. Other creatures mate solely for reproduction. But humans are the only species that enjoy this pleasure beyond just procreation. Why? Because God designed sex not just for reproduction, but also for bonding, stress relief, and maintaining emotional harmony between partners. This is why, even when pregnancy is not the goal, a couple continues to engage in intimacy regularly. Without this constant cycle of pleasure, emotional connection, and intimacy, relationships would suffer. A woman, after experiencing the pain of childbirth, might never want to go through it again. A man, burdened with responsibilities, might lose his motivation to work and provide. But sex keeps the system running. The Divine Balance God, in His wisdom, has allowed couples the freedom to experience intimacy whenever they desire, with no legal or religious restrictions, as long as it happens within marriage. Both man and woman receive their fair share of pleasure: The man experiences intense gratification, emotional release, and dominance satisfaction. The woman enjoys profound, long-lasting pleasure—up to ten times more than the man. Less effort, greater reward. Sex is not just a biological act. It is a divine gift, a system of balance, and an eternal bond between two souls. #nakupenda #Utom58 #De_NextVerYou #Relationship/Sex
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  • If it looks good but doesn’t work, it’s not good design. #aduloju70 #passion

    If it looks good but doesn’t work, it’s not good design. #aduloju70 #passion
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  • Five Things to Teach Your Girl Child — A Must-Read for Every Female Child

    Your worth isn't measured by your body.
    Educate your mind, not just your looks. Real value is found in wisdom, not in waistlines.

    Dream big — God is big enough to handle it.
    No dream is too big when faith and hard work meet. Refuse to shrink to fit the world's small expectations.

    Know that beauty fades, but character lasts.
    Charm can draw attention, but character commands respect. Build a heart and soul that will stand the test of time.

    Financial independence is not optional.
    Learn to earn, save, and invest early. A girl who controls her finances controls her future.

    Your voice matters — use it.
    Speak up for what you believe, even if your voice shakes. Silence has never been the pathway to change.
    #Ngo_123 #grace
    Five Things to Teach Your Girl Child — A Must-Read for Every Female Child 📌 Your worth isn't measured by your body. Educate your mind, not just your looks. Real value is found in wisdom, not in waistlines. 📌 Dream big — God is big enough to handle it. No dream is too big when faith and hard work meet. Refuse to shrink to fit the world's small expectations. 📌 Know that beauty fades, but character lasts. Charm can draw attention, but character commands respect. Build a heart and soul that will stand the test of time. 📌 Financial independence is not optional. Learn to earn, save, and invest early. A girl who controls her finances controls her future. 📌 Your voice matters — use it. Speak up for what you believe, even if your voice shakes. Silence has never been the pathway to change. #Ngo_123 #grace
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  • HOW WAS YOUR DAY

    It's a beautiful and lovely tuesday evening,

    some are back from work, some are still at work, some are on their way back.

    But however, I just hope today was meaningful and productive for us all.
    For me it's been an amazing day and I hope it's same for you.

    I really want to know how your day went, so pls give me an emoji that best describes how your day went.

    And don't forget that I Love You
    NAKUPENDA MY PEOPLE

    #GRACE Liberty Wealth
    HOW WAS YOUR DAY 😊😊 It's a beautiful and lovely tuesday evening, some are back from work, some are still at work, some are on their way back. But however, I just hope today was meaningful and productive for us all. For me it's been an amazing day and I hope it's same for you. I really want to know how your day went, so pls give me an emoji that best describes how your day went. And don't forget that I Love You NAKUPENDA MY PEOPLE #GRACE [LilyWealth]
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  • Riddle time!!! Let's see who get the answer

    I don’t need a reboot, but I make everything run smoothly.
    I’m not an app, but I’m essential for connection.
    I’m felt, not seen, but without me, nothing truly works.
    What am I?

    Hint: Nakupenda runs on me!

    Type your answer in the comments section

    Answer: ..........

    #knowledge
    #nakupendariddle
    #gbemiking
    Riddle time!!! Let's see who get the answer I don’t need a reboot, but I make everything run smoothly. I’m not an app, but I’m essential for connection. I’m felt, not seen, but without me, nothing truly works. What am I? Hint: Nakupenda runs on me! Type your answer in the comments section Answer: .......... #knowledge #nakupendariddle #gbemiking
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  • Omo, make I talk as e dey do me, I no go even lie, if na me dem treat like this, I for vex too. E hard to dey do “turn the other cheek” when person don slap you sotey your whole soul dey pain. Dem really carry this woman play, and still expect her to keep quiet? E no dey work like that.

    But as I reason am well, I come realize say two wrong no dey ever make right. As sweet as revenge dey feel that moment, sometimes e dey leave one kind bitterness for body later. And if you no comot that bitterness, e go just dey grow like weed.

    She don suffer, e clear. Wetin pain pass na say she hold this man down from nothing, yet na betrayal she get in return. Still, I go talk true: revenge no go heal that kind wound, e just dey shift the pain.

    Now dem dey beg her, meaning say karma don show face. She fit help or she fit waka comot, but make she choose wetin go bring her peace of mind. Because at the end, na peace wey person need pass all these wahala.

    To me, she no be wicked person, she na woman wey pain break. I just dey pray make she no lose herself inside this storm. Make her children no grow dey carry this hurt join body. Make she still try find small joy, small healing, because she don already prove say she strong.

    Life go still better, make she no let their darkness kill her light.

    #SpreadTheLove
    #PeaceOfMind
    #NakupendaCares
    Omo, make I talk as e dey do me, I no go even lie, if na me dem treat like this, I for vex too. E hard to dey do “turn the other cheek” when person don slap you sotey your whole soul dey pain. Dem really carry this woman play, and still expect her to keep quiet? E no dey work like that. But as I reason am well, I come realize say two wrong no dey ever make right. As sweet as revenge dey feel that moment, sometimes e dey leave one kind bitterness for body later. And if you no comot that bitterness, e go just dey grow like weed. She don suffer, e clear. Wetin pain pass na say she hold this man down from nothing, yet na betrayal she get in return. Still, I go talk true: revenge no go heal that kind wound, e just dey shift the pain. Now dem dey beg her, meaning say karma don show face. She fit help or she fit waka comot, but make she choose wetin go bring her peace of mind. Because at the end, na peace wey person need pass all these wahala. To me, she no be wicked person, she na woman wey pain break. I just dey pray make she no lose herself inside this storm. Make her children no grow dey carry this hurt join body. Make she still try find small joy, small healing, because she don already prove say she strong. Life go still better, make she no let their darkness kill her light. #SpreadTheLove #PeaceOfMind #NakupendaCares
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  • I can vividly remember the first time i walked in for an interview in Jos. Before then i had prepared for every question except salary requirements.
    When i was asked, i panicked and said "pay me anything" but then they insisted i give a figure.. i was going to say 100,000 naira but i couldnt, it seemed like a huge money.. i ended up asking for 30,000 naira because of fear of loosing the opportunity. I worked as hard as everyone else having the same Bsc just to realise later on that i was the lowest paid. But during that ****** i gained experience, i added value to myself and confidence boosted. This time around when i walked in for the position of a sales manager in a bubbling city like Abuja, i knew better than to let history repeat itself. I researched their pay range and negotiated higher, when the interview was over, i walked out confidently like a boss and guess what i got the job!.

    Kill fear with value and experience. If you loose self esteem is cause you havent gained value. Believe in yourself that you can do it and then work on yourself.

    Do you think negotiation skill is important in every organisation? Have you had such experience? Please share in the comment section

    FOLLOW FOR MORE!
    #nakupenda
    #team 2
    #Mindpower
    #imagination
    I can vividly remember the first time i walked in for an interview in Jos. Before then i had prepared for every question except salary requirements. When i was asked, i panicked and said "pay me anything" but then they insisted i give a figure.. i was going to say 100,000 naira but i couldnt, it seemed like a huge money.. i ended up asking for 30,000 naira because of fear of loosing the opportunity. I worked as hard as everyone else having the same Bsc just to realise later on that i was the lowest paid. But during that period i gained experience, i added value to myself and confidence boosted. This time around when i walked in for the position of a sales manager in a bubbling city like Abuja, i knew better than to let history repeat itself. I researched their pay range and negotiated higher, when the interview was over, i walked out confidently like a boss and guess what i got the job!. Kill fear with value and experience. If you loose self esteem is cause you havent gained value. Believe in yourself that you can do it and then work on yourself. Do you think negotiation skill is important in every organisation? Have you had such experience? Please share in the comment section FOLLOW FOR MORE! #nakupenda #team 2 #Mindpower #imagination
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  • Life Lessons from the 10 Virgins (Matthew 25:1–13)

    This story isn’t just about oil and lamps—it’s about life, readiness, and personal growth. Here’s what it teaches us today:

    Stay Ready – Opportunities and challenges don’t always give warnings. Be prepared, even in the quiet seasons.

    You Can’t Borrow Growth – Wisdom, discipline, and faith aren’t transferable. Do your own inner work.

    Time Has Limits – Some doors in life don’t stay open forever. Don’t delay what truly matters.

    Look Beyond Appearances – All 10 had lamps, but only 5 had oil. Substance beats image—every time.

    Keep Watch – Stay awake to life’s deeper purpose. Be present, be intentional, be ready.

    The message is simple: don’t just carry the lamp—make sure you’ve got the oil.


    #knowledge
    #LifeLessons
    #StayReady
    #gbemiking
    Life Lessons from the 10 Virgins (Matthew 25:1–13) This story isn’t just about oil and lamps—it’s about life, readiness, and personal growth. Here’s what it teaches us today: Stay Ready – Opportunities and challenges don’t always give warnings. Be prepared, even in the quiet seasons. You Can’t Borrow Growth – Wisdom, discipline, and faith aren’t transferable. Do your own inner work. Time Has Limits – Some doors in life don’t stay open forever. Don’t delay what truly matters. Look Beyond Appearances – All 10 had lamps, but only 5 had oil. Substance beats image—every time. Keep Watch – Stay awake to life’s deeper purpose. Be present, be intentional, be ready. The message is simple: don’t just carry the lamp—make sure you’ve got the oil. #knowledge #LifeLessons #StayReady #gbemiking
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  • Say to yourself IAM SPECIAL

    Today's date is Special 5.5.25

    5 stands for Grace:

    _May the Grace of God work for you.
    _May the Grace of your Father fight for you.
    _May the Word of His Grace sanctify and give you your inheritance.
    _May Grace open impossible doors for you.
    _May Grace swallow your labour and flavour your efforts.
    _May Grace cause you to suck Honey, ,paste Butter, drink Milk, and walk in Oil.
    _May you receive special Graceful gifts

    #BEENGRACED

    #Discipline
    Say to yourself IAM SPECIAL Today's date is Special 5.5.25 5 stands for Grace: _May the Grace of God work for you. _May the Grace of your Father fight for you. _May the Word of His Grace sanctify and give you your inheritance. _May Grace open impossible doors for you. _May Grace swallow your labour and flavour your efforts. _May Grace cause you to suck Honey, ,paste Butter, drink Milk, and walk in Oil. _May you receive special Graceful gifts #BEENGRACED #Discipline
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  • Hello everyone!! Easter is near! So you have exactly few days to learn the difference between Rise, Rose,Risen and Arose! Respect yourself this season Just type Happy Easter. I don't want to see post like 'he arousen', 'he arinze', 'he has riced' , 'he roasted from the grave' someone even wrote 'he has resigned '. The worst are those who write 'Happy Esther' . Enjoy the rest of your day #work o'clock
    Hello everyone!! Easter is near! So you have exactly few days to learn the difference between Rise, Rose,Risen and Arose! Respect yourself this season 😂 Just type Happy Easter. I don't want to see post like 'he arousen', 'he arinze', 'he has riced' 🤣, 'he roasted from the grave' someone even wrote 'he has resigned '. The worst are those who write 'Happy Esther' 😂🤣. Enjoy the rest of your day #work o'clock
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  • I have done and refresh all the the steps posted in the group. Trying to post a picture and videos now to see if it would work
    I have done and refresh all the the steps posted in the group. Trying to post a picture and videos now to see if it would work
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    Hello friends You wanna keep fit Follow me And workout every morning💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
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